Do you believe some marriages could be improved if women watched more porn?

Might some marriages be improved if the men put the needs and desires of their wives ahead of their own? If something hurts your spouse, shouldn't you consider not doing it?

Just playin' devil's advocate there.

You know my real answer--watch more porn, bring in toys, and just have more sex! Keep each other satisfied!

add: Although now that I think about it, I don't think it would help anyway. Some women are just so uptight about sex in general. I asked a question ( http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoWtK... )

and was surprised at how many angry women insisted that their men should wine-and-dine and romance them every time the poor man wants to get laid, yet none of them were willing to give him a quickie. No wonder the guys need porn--

and to me this is the real kicker about porn--

women who actually enjoy sex!

(Or at least act like they do!)

I personally think that is what is so fun about porn to so many men, or at least part of it. If your woman doesn't want sex, you dream about having a woman who does.

No. I think men realizing that sex is not as big of priority as they make it, and if they took some accountability and practiced self control.....then some marriages would be improved.

My personal stance, I'll randomly watch some, a couple times a year. My SO has a lower sex drive and I've never caught him on the computer once. It's just not a big deal in our relationship, firstly, and secondly, we realize that there are plenty of other things in life that come before sex 24/7.

We have a very healthy sexual relationship and porn has NEVER been an issue.

I don't mind watching porn. My husband isn't really into it, but if he was then I would watch it with him.

If that's what they like, then yes. But men and women are different. Men are more visual, women are more sensitive and romantic. It's not really a pornophobia. It's a woman's insecurity at thinking that a man is sexually attracted to the women in them and their fear that they can't measure up. That fear leads to a man doing it when she isn't around and hiding it. If I was doing something that made my husband feel insecure then I would stop. I would expect the same from him.

With porn, people think that because it's something you watch and that it's fantasy then they aren't doing anything wrong, whether the feelings are right or wrong is another debate and is different in every relationship.

I watch porn a lot. I get really turned on when I get a chance to be with my husband and I think about doing things the women do in the porn I saw that day. We had awesome sex a couple of weeks ago. I gave him head till my mouth was sore. He came three times. But, he still tried to cheat on me this weekend with my friend, while I'm pregnant. Does it improve the sex? Probably. Does it improve the marriage? No.

I don't think porn is the problem unless sex is lacking in the relationship. Most women view porn as their men lusting for other women. What would you do if your woman started to watch porn and then finds that she needs sex with other men who can satisfy her better than you? Just a thought. Porn is a problem in a lot of relationships. Either be happy and sexually satisfied with the woman you're with, or move on to someone who has a higher sex drive.

I am a women and I do enjoy some random porn and I would love it if sometimes my ex would have enjoyed it or else he would not keep saying I was CHEATING over some net porn..lookin at porn isn't cheating is just fantasy and some women should know that it does not degrade them it just makes you more loveable if you watchit once in blue damm moon.

So, wheres my pornhub

I do watch porn. Every night I get the chance. Now if I could only find a man to be my husband and watch with me....

I also agree with Indeed...as a straight female watching other women is not appealing to me. So I discovered gay porn. All the ***** I wanna see.

i think it might help but i have to say, i watch it sometimes and as a straight female, it is not always what i want to see. a friend sent me a clip he thought i would enjoy. i watched it but the first 6 minutes were of a woman masturbating. i know men like that but i'm not interested in watching women rub one out. i doubt there are a lot of straight men who want to see another guy masturbating. i just wish there was porn that was geared more for women.

My husband and I do watch it together every couple of months or so, and act out the "love" scenes - it's a lot of fun.

**Leykis, we ladies do not compare ourselves to the porn actresses...it's the MEN who compare us not only physically, but expect us to ACT like the actresses, when they (the men) do not have a clue how to turn us on!!

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