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I have a long distance-relationship problem,please help?

ill try to be quick-Me and a girl like eachother a lot. We met off this online dating thing,we're both 18. I feel really dumb for liking her because we live a few hours apart(never happened to me before). It takes a lot for me to like a girl,rarely ever happens. We don't like long distant relationships,so we aren't together. She likes going to parties every now and then and having fun with guys(rarely happens). And no sex :P just making out.the time we've been "together" she hasn't done it,only because she hasn't had the opportunity. And its not wrong for her to do this,we aren't together. But knowing she will do that soon,and wants to,******* hurts. Idk what to do. Help?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    honestly, long distance relationships really suck .

    not being able to see each other or talk to each other when you really want to isnt that greatt .

    but if you two really like each other, you'll make it work no matter what happens .

    if she really cared though, she wouldnt be playing around with other guys .

    i think the best thing to do is talk to her & see what happens, and go from theree, because no one deserves to get hurt in a situation like that.

    even if things dont work, know that its for the best, moving on might be hardd but its worth it when you find someone else .

    hope everything works out though, good luck (:

  • ?
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    I'm often amused by people who think they are having a relationship over a long distance via computer or phone. Lets just be honest, your having a relationship with your computer and your phone. It's not a relationship until you are face to face. It's certainly not serious until you live together. You also only know what they tell you because you are no where near them to know the truth. Face it, you don't know squat.

    With online dating it's absurd to expect that you are getting the full story. It really shows me how gullible people are to miss the obvious things like not knowing for sure what is going on or you are only getting a view of the good stuff and none of the bad. It's a nice way to get introductions and have some conversations but ultimately you don't know anything but what they give you. That is the cool thing about online relationships, you can be whatever you want to be because the other party never really has to see you unless they really want to.

    Your best best is to call it a friendship and nothing more. I wouldn't get worked up over it all either. Be the better person by admitting that you don't have a relationship and won't until your face to face on a regular basis. At least then you can know it's honest.

  • 10 years ago

    end it bro. sorry.those dont usually work

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