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Hey teenage girls(15-17) can you answer this?
Why do girls like d-bags so much I just don't understand I mean I'm a nice guy and it just seems like if a girl had to choose between me and a d-bag she would choose the d-bag. What are girls looking for in a guy my age(16). I'm nice, smart, I wrestle, I workout, I like to read, I can make any girl I talk to laugh, i'm down to earth, easy to approach/talk to, I play guitar, people tell me I'm a good artist, I enjoy listening to music a lot, I would never be mean to/ disrepect a girl, I don't think I look half bad(mild acne, not that bad though), I'm not depressing, I smile a lot, i'm positive, I will help anyone, I'm generous. I just don't understand why a girl would choose a d-bag over me, I mean girls always talk about how they like nice guys. So why am I being put in the friend zone so girls can go out with guys that will treat them like crap and cheat on them(a guy at my school cheated on this girl I knew and she found out but still kept going out with him). I could really use some advice from you girls on what you want in a guy, cause I don't want to have to act like an a**hole to try to get girls(it seems that's all girls really like)
I'm not trying to get laid I would much rather have a girlfriend than get laid
I am not bad looking! I actually look better than most guys in my grade. And as far as popularity almost everyone in my grade knows me and alot of people in the grade lower/above know me Im the kinda guy who will talk to anyone and everyone.
11 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
Honestly... What you just described, is my dream guy. Especially since I play the guitar, too. :p
Anyways, that aside... The kind of guys I like are:
-Cute
-Athletic
-Musically gifted
-Christians
-Artistic
-Funny
-Positive
-Friendly
-Smiley
-Sweet
-Has a surfer-ish kinda style
-Wears puka shell necklaces
-Treats women with respect
-Is a gentleman.
Source(s): A Sophomore in High School. :) - 10 years ago
I'm 16 years old. Because I guess it's not that we like that about them, but we like them, do you know what I mean? And actually, I would chose you, not the d-bag, you seem like a really nice guy and d-bags are just pointless in liking, because in the end we all get hurt and regret them, so yes. I would look for how nice they are, how sweet they are, how smart they are, how caring they are, how funny they are, how happy they are, how they are as a person, if they have a great personality, if they aren't heartbreakers, if they don't get pissed off easily, if they smile more than frown or get mad, if they are about my height or taller (not shorter), if they dress appropriatley, if they are decent, if they presentable and if they know how to treat a girl and how to be in a relationship and also if they're understanding and dependable. Looks don't matter sooo much, but they have to be good looking, not like an Abercrombie model or anything. I don't know you, but I like you just the way you are and forget those girls who want jerks, find a girl who will appreciate you for who you are inside and for how you treat them, not some girl who is stupid enough to go with a jerk. Take care. Good luck in your love life. And I promise you that someday out of the nowhere you will find that one girl who is simply perfect and you will fall in love and end up together for the rest of your lives. SMILE! Hope I helped.
Source(s): I'm a Junior in High School C: - Anonymous10 years ago
OK, I'm much older than the girls you want to answer this, but from my perspective it's about confidence. A d-bag is someone who exudes confidence. He doesn't care about what anyone thinks and says stupid things. An overly nice guy who worries about how other people think doesn't appear confident and so is less appealing. I think when girls get older they can distinguish between confidence and a**holes, but at 15, 16, 17 it's much more difficult.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Honestly girls like bad boys.... I know I did when I was 16/17 and went with a boy who didn't treat me nice and cheated. Now Im 20 and look for more of a nice guy, who's down to earth and is easy to talk to. Girls may not appreciate you now but they will and if they don't they obviously don't realise how nice of a guy you really are, so move on and find a girl who does appreciate you. It may be easy for me to say and you may not realise it now.... but really girls will look for a nice guy like you, so keep your chin up and keep being yourself, not somebody your not!! =)
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- 10 years ago
It might just be the girls u like. If ur really popular id understand but if not that popular u might be going for the girls that r a little higher than u. and if u are popular ask em out. girls dont like to ask the guys out its weird.
Source(s): Junior - 10 years ago
I have no idea why we girls always go for the d-bags in high school, honestly. But for some reason, we do. LOL you sound exactly like this guy I know named Zach.
- Anonymous10 years ago
I feel ya my dude, it's the same with me. The girl always chooses the guy who can get them higher up in the social hierarchy of high school...At least that's my situation riht now. Good luck though, haha.
- 10 years ago
Wow, as mean as it may seem your not good looking enough for girls. Most girls choose guys over looks i mean come on I would....even if he's a douchebag.
- Miley CLv 510 years ago
I'd go out with a guy like u which I am lol I hate those stupid jackasses I'm a b*tch to them