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Caught in a love triangle(or that's what my friends are calling it) HELP!?

ok so there are two guys that everybody thinks likes me and last year i had this same issue and i want to try to resolve it at the begging of the year quickly so i don't have people that btw some of them i don't know walking up to me saying you and so and so are totally in love or so and so likes you and on and on and on. The problem is idk if they actually like me so how do i know if these two guys who are my friends like me. o and i might like both of them but idk if that's because of what everyone says, but i for sure like one of them. o yea and my friend says she is gona make them fight over me i i dont solve this and i really don't want to loose either of them. Also i really don't want to walk up and ask them if they like me

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  • 10 years ago
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    well first off, if they do like im sure the last thing they want is for you to belive any of the rumors. to the people that are saying these things prob got asked by the two guys. next time it happens say im not going to trust someone i bartel know. if they reallly do like me in that way. they need to come right out and tell me or nothing is going to happen. this message will get told to the guys, and maybe there will be progress. second, you need to get your feeling in check. see if they are someone you could be in a happy relationship. wich one you would rather be with or. if you just want to stay good friends. in situations like this the friends thing wont really work out. so you have to decide wether be super close to one ane turn one into a distant friend. or say lets just be friends. and make it super awkward between the three of you for a long time. third. get your friend sto do a lil digging for you. just make sure that these friends are realtivly aquinted witht hese guys or else it would be suspicious of a random girl walked up to them and asked if they like. it would be obvious that you asked them to do it.

    fourth. take a course of action. this isnt a 3 dat proccess its prob gonna take a week or two. but thew most important thing isw go with your gut. and make the right choice.

    Source(s): same situation i had last years. just reverse the sexes. 1 guy 2 girls. good luck!
  • 10 years ago

    A love triangle is an awkward place to be in, but some also consider it a lucky place because you have two guys that want you! Anyways, if I were you, I would think about your friendships with them. Do you value one more as a friend than the other? Do you consider one as more of a romantic friend than the other? I would suggest going for the one that you know for sure you like. If you like him more, you would probably have a better relationship with him. But also, make sure the other guy is alright with just being friends. When you talk to him, keep using the word friend so he gets the point that you're not into him that way and that you don't wanna lead him on. It will all work out for the best. Everything happens for a reason :)

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  • 10 years ago

    Remain stead fast and ever present in both of their lives and you'll never lose one no matter who you end up being with.. This is pretty much on you though.. They'll keep feelings how they will and until you are able to pick one this will never go away unless one of them really doesn't like you as much as they think. I'd gather your feelings and decide who you care for more and try and resolve the situation.. Or just sit back, relax and watch two guys kill each other fighting for you which might ruin your relationship with both of them.

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    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    So often, friends like to label relationships. Just wait until you learn for sure if either of the guys really like you. Or, if you are anxious, tell them what you heard, and ask them if there is any truth to it. It never hurts to ask.

    Good luck.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    you have to be positive that they like you. when you r list on a peice of paper what you like and dislike about them minus the # of dislikes from the # of likes. whoever has the highest # left you should tell ur friend that u like and to spread that and then hopefully he will ask u out. hope this helps!

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    in basic terms take time think of approximately it being uncertain is your minds way of weighing out the pros and cons i doubt you rather like neither one adequate yet are a good individual to no longer leap in yet i think of you need to stay single have relaxing and then whilst your no longer puzzled date who ever do no longer complicate your recommendations in any respect

  • 10 years ago

    In private, go up to them seperatly, and ask each of them out. (at seperate times and places of course) the on that says yes likes you, and vice-versa. I neither of them say yes, then just be friends, if both say yes, just tell one of them it was a joke.

  • 10 years ago

    its all in the game of love u can only make the right choice

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    you get

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