Should I trust my son? PLEASE HELP!!?

If his girlfriend gets pregnant just have her belly flop into a pool.

It has already happened and there is no way to stop it now, the best thing to do right now is give him the sex talk and such. When it comes to getting condoms I would say go for it because I wouldnt want to risk anything at all. But before you buy them for him ask him if hes had sex and say you just want him to be safe and thats why your asking him that. So if he says he has or he plans on it get him protection. If anything try and go for some scare tactics and show him what can happen if he has sex and how an accidental pregnancy can ruin your life.

This should make things much easier on you because only thing yelling is going to do is make things worse. Try and make sure you tell him how you feel about it but also say your not forcing him to do anything. This should give you the best results

I think you should talk to the girl's parents first. They deserve to know too and see what their opinion is. It'll be much easier if they BOTH get the sex talk than just your son. Plus, it's much easier to get a girl not to want to have sex than a guys (because of the risk of getting pregnant.) This way, if she doesn't want to have sex, and if your son is even a little iffy about it, they wont do it.

Now about the condoms... I don't suggest you give him any. I know there's a risk, but just don't. He's too young to be having sex (as is the girl). The main reason why giving him a condom, I think, is pointless is because of the fact that the girl is very unlikely to get pregnant at this age (unless she got her period already, which is pretty doubtful).

Anyways, I hop I helped, and good luck.

Talk to him! dont yell just explain how important it is for him to obstain from that kind of stuff. make sure he understands the consequences from having sex. If you let him know how worried you are for him he might understand. Also dont go over crazy lockdown, because that could trigger a rebellion in him. bot what you saw that kind of behavior is very bad and yes it probably would have led to sex. tell the little girls parent too. Yu need to be on top of this. dont let him go to parties with out speaking to the parents first and make sure you know where he wil be going and who with. Dont give him condoms i think it would just encourage him to do it. I am very sorry. If it hapens again you need to get involved with counciling. Not sex counciling because you son will just ignore the person the whole time but normal counciling. If this goes on longer it could get even more nasty than his girlfriend having a baby

Whatever you do, don't yell at him over this. Just sit down with him, and talk to him calmly about this. Make him feel safe and secure to talk to you about this without you getting mad at him. If he tells you that he has had sex with his girlfriend, don't get mad at him about it. Simply make sure that he's using protection and being safe about it. If he tells you that he hasn't, then calmly but firmly tell him that you don't want him doing that sort of thing just yet. Then give him all of your reasons why. If he tries to argue, just remain calm but firm on where you stand. Try to understand that he is going through those changes and will want to do these things, especially if he really cares for his girlfriend, so getting mad at him over something completely natural would be a very bad thing. Hope this helps.

Trust your son and definitely remind him to wear a condom if he ever goes "all the way". Explain to him how it will ruin his life if he doesn't. But don't worry, your son is only 12, that's young. You won't have to truly worry for another 3 years. Hope this helps and good luck!

I had this problem with my mum, I was 14 and I told my mum I had sex and she reacted really badly and it made me do it stypidly.

Just explain to him that in your opinion he should wait until hes older, but in my opinion you should make sure if he's going to do it, hes protected and doing it safely.

Would you rather him be safe & protect himself or end up with a grandchild?

you should have the talk with him go into detail it may sound weird but youll prolly scare him from haveing sex good luck

U give him those safety u know what he's gonna do it 2 his gf multiple times. & that's not right if he's doing it millions of time.

He's going to do it sooner or later. Sick wheels kid!