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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!?

My son is 12 years old, almost 13. And 2 days ago I found him & his girlfriend making out!!

1) his girlfriend wasn't supposed to be there!

2) she was topless!

I'm soo worried! He's been home alone 4 times a week for 5 weeks! What if they already had sex!? Please, help me! My son could have got a girl pregnant! It would ruin his life, honestly I know people will say "you're a bad parent" but I really didn't know! Should I already give him condoms? But, if I give him condoms, he'll think its ok to have sex! I don't want him having sex! I want to trust him, but I can't!! I found his girlfriend topless! And, I think if I waited maybe only 20 minutes, they would of been nude & they'd be having sex! What should I do? I'm soo worried & he has raging hormones! Please help! Should I give him condoms? Well, then he'll think it's ok to have sex, but if I don't, I could risk him doing it without protection! Please! I'm crying, I really want my son tohave a normal life! Please help!!

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    How big were her boobs?

  • 10 years ago

    your son is to younge for that but all of kids do that now and days but anyways getting to the point talk to him about sex and how if he gets a girl pregnant then tell him how it will change his life and that's hes to younge and such if he was my son i would either ground him or make him break up with his girlfriend but yet im only 14 and i only kissed a guy but never made out so i don't know i hope this helps since him only 14

  • 10 years ago

    okay, first, you need to breath, take a second and try and relax before you burst. basically, you need to tell him. you need to say how you feel about it, tell him consequences. say it softly, make sure he listens and choose your words carefully. he needs to understand how you feel. explain about contraception, he'll need to know sooner of later and make him realise that having sex at his age is illegal. if it gets out of hand then you'll have to take things further and speak to his girlfriends mum. your son needs to understand that sex is a major thing that should be shared with someone he loves. i'm sure you'll be able to do it, make sure you do talk to him soon !! best of luck (:

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Give him condoms. Its his choice to have sex or not. But he might as well be protected.

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