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Wife accuses me of being sex addict.?

Because I want to make love to her often. Like every day. Maybe more than once. And ONLY her in the privacy of our bedroom. Married almost 20 years. Have always had a high sex drive and she used to as well. Any help?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    10 years ago
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    Having sex once a day isn't bad. She should be flattered that you are that attracted to her

  • 10 years ago

    Well, Well, Well....It is time to woo the sex drive back into existence.She needs a lot of space from your magic wand, so you will give her that. You may have to rely on your hands a lot for now but it's the price you gotta pay. In twenty years you must have noticed that as women our sexual drive is not entirely physical like men, so begin to find which of her senses is connected to her sex drive and feed those puppies even when she is unaware. Flirt with her like you are not married, if you know what her fantacies are appeal to them in the most subtle manner. Afrodiciasc foods can be introduced as well, meaning cook for her a few times with some oysters. In otherwords, woo the sex back to life without being forceful but rather in a subtle manner.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Maybe you are not very exciting in bed and are only interested in getting your jolies without concern for her. You come across as self-focused. But you are not the same as 20 years ago, neither is she, neither is the relationship. You need to look at the relationship you are in and the woman and yourself as you all are now, not how you were 20 years ago. How do you woo a woman 20 years older?

  • 10 years ago

    Don't know how old your wife is, but sadly as we ladies get older our sex drive goes out the window, what with work, home, pending menopause and everything else, lots of the time we are just tired out and not interested. However, that does not mean we love our husbands any less. Maybe try to see if you can get away for a weekend, with no other distractions and try to get that old feeling back.

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  • 10 years ago

    I'm only 22, but been married for a year. And I'm the same way, but my wife never calls me that. Sounds like the relationship needs to get better and maybe she will be the one wanting it all the time.

  • 10 years ago

    Sex drives change over the years and she should be happy your still want to have sex with her...

  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    Maybe she does,nt see it as making love

    More as a routine ? Something she just expects everyday

    She probably cooks and cleans everyday

    She gets fed up with this too ?

    Sometimes less is more

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    its a shaming tactic and a preparation for divorce.

    beware

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Time to start seeing PALMala or FISTina!!

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