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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 10 years ago

Help need your opinion!?!?!?!?

so me and my girl have been together for a while, im 22 and shes 26, shes got 2 kids, and we have been together for 6 months now. she lives 4 hours away from me so its a bit of a long distance relationship, so far she has showed me no reason not to trust her or anything. but we dropped her car off at the auto repair shop, and i noticed on her keys was a key ive never seen her use. i asked her about it, and it turns out its her ex-boyfriends(the one she was with before me) key to his appartment, when they broke up, he did it over the phone so they never gave eachother's belongings back and have as far as i know no communication at all.

she says she completely forgot it was on there. and at first it didnt bother me at all, and i kinda laughed about it, but now after a couple hours of it stiring in my brain its really bothering me. they where together on and off for 3 years and i was told by all her friends and family that she really wasnt happy at all, even she has said those past couple years has been pretty bad.

she seems very happy when shes around me and her friends all are glad that im with her because she hasnt been this happy in years. but even with this knowledge it still seems to bother me. do i need to be worried at all that she still has his appartment key on her keys?

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    I don't think you need to worry about it. It's natural not to get rid of everything after a break up. Maybe it just slipped her mind or something. You said that she's never given you reason to doubt her and that you have been happy so far in the relationship. Although if it still bothers you and you need peace of mind,why don't you talk to her in getting rid of the key? If it means nothing to her and she's over her last relationship then this would not be a problem to her.

    I say you shouldn't worry and overthink things too much.

    Your initial reaction was okay with things until you let it get to you.

    Good luck!

    Source(s): my experience
  • ?
    Lv 6
    10 years ago

    I can understand it bothers you, so why don't you tell her it does. She has no reason to keep it with the rest of her keys, so hopefully it won't be a problem to throw it away or something. If she does get defensive or wants to keep it for some lame excuse then I would be a little concerned of why she would have any use of her ex boyfriends apartment key.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just trust her :)

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