Im so nervous around my girlfriend, i dont feel like i should be allowed to date her?

I feel the same way about my girlfriend, but you know what? It's not up to us. She chose me. Your girl chose you. She made the choice. Just act like it though. You can't act like you don't feel like you deserve to be around her because she'll pick up on that.

My girl is the most beautiful woman in the world to me, perfect in every way, yet she's with me. Why? Because she chose to be. She has options, yet she chose to be with me.

Yeah. Think about that, and if you ever think about breaking up with her, you'll be breaking her heart. You'll have hurt the girl that you find so close to perfect if you leave her. Think about it. She chose you for a reason. She chose to be by your side over everyone else. That's gotta mean something when she passed up the millions of guys she could have chosen.

They say love yourself before you love someone else.

I say thats the BEST quote ive ever stuck with throughout my life.

I was in your position once. & i can tell you, that you dont even know who you are as a person.

Sounds like your trying to fit into a pair of schools that wont go in.

In other words, just stop and find yourself some confidence. Yes that means you might have to break up with her or grow as you go on. Smart, pretty and a nice body? so what i know so many pretty girls that are dying on insecurity verses the ugly fat girls that have hella confidence it burns when they walk into a room.

Love yourself thats what you can do. You need to grow and learn that you love yourself first otherwise its just not gonna work and your gonna learn the hard way.

You seem like a sweetheart and a chill guy, whats there to be so insecure about? i mean this pretty smart beautiful girl got with you because she thinks your pretty damn amazing! Goodluck hun!

You are a good person, right?

Your problem is your own self image.

You may be "X" but your perception may be totally off and you may see yourself as "Z".

Our minds can be so distorted and our perceptions so far off and it is because of what we speak to ourselves. If she is all that you say that she is and she wants to be with you, then you must be much smarter, better looking, and worthy than you think.

There are some very good books and ipod audio books that you can read or listen to to help improve your confidence and self image. You have to make them part of how you think and it really does change your perspective.

Some of the best are from Stephen R Covey and Zig Zigler but there are lots of others too!

Good luck : )

Be good and then you can believe you are good!

you know what that's hard and i can relate I feel the same way, I had an very abusive father who told me i wasn't good enough growing up. it took me years to like myself and accept myself and I still have work to do. In today's world it is so easy to feel like your not enough with the whole world saying your not good enough with ads and such so its hard to keep a sense of self esteem. what helped me was I kept a journal and everyday I wrote down 3 different things that I liked about myself for a whole month at the end it was almost 100 good things about me no repeats it really helped me a lot. I also learned to listen to complements people gave me i did not brag or get stuck up but i also wrote them down in my journal and I kept it to myself but I slowly saw that I wasn't so bad as I thought that there was a lot of good things that I didn't see. I'll bet there are tons of good things that you just don't see in yourself people are very often there toughest critic learn to complement yourself once and a while!

Don't forget she's dating you for a reason! Whatever the reason is, she saw something in you she likes and wanted to go out with you! Have confidence and enjoy the fact that you have her, after a little while the nerves will go away as you get more comfortable

Your a sweet guy, I can see why this girl likes you in the first place. I woudn't worry about messing up.. if you just be yourself, and if something goes wrong.. it wasn't meant to be. Because in the end, someone is going to like you for who you are, and being attractive is only a fraction of what really counts.

If she's ALLOWING you to date her, than you're probably allowed to date her. Hahaha we're all insecure man, but take that insecurity and turn that into gratefulness.

ok is that picture for ur profile pic you or just someone else? becuause if it is..you are attractive im not gonna lie. :) but if not ..oh.? but either way she obviously likes you and you should accept that and be happy dont worry sing a song she likes you for who you are and just be yourself. when i say be your self i mean be the person you are when your around your friends! ok bye

So you're nervous because you're giving her the privilege of your time as a man. I don't get it.

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