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If a guy isn't into me already, will he ever be?

So, I met this guy on recital-thingy, and I like him, but I'm shy, so I get really nervous when talking to him in person. So nervous I don't know what to say, which causes an awkward situation sometimes. Anyway, we've been chatting a couple times on FB, but I always take the initiative, and he seems like a guy who's confident enough to ask a girl out/talk to her if he's into her. I doubt he has feelings for me, at least not yet, but if we keep talking, do you think he might like me?

We only met about two weeks ago.

Update:

He's single, by the way. Overheard him, and I asked a mutual friend :)

Update 2:

Jeez, chill

Update 3:

Only said I heard he was single not that he was madly in love with me. Please read, before answering.

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  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Absolutely yes. People change their mind all the time, you can go from hating to loving someone in a matter of minutes. Keep talking to him, see how it goes. And don't assume he doesn't have feelings for you! He might be shy with people he really likes, you never know :)

  • Vetty
    Lv 5
    10 years ago

    Doesn't matter what you heard, doesn't matter how often you 'chat' with this guy on FB. If he's not that into you, than he's not. And no, he will never be.

    That's not being crude, that's just letting your know, that you should ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. There might be the right guy for you at the same place.

    If someone makes you that nervous to talk to, then maybe you're trying to hard to be a 'bright shiny you' be YOU! Obviously you need only deal with you.

    So, move on.

    Source(s): watch DVD - He's Just Not That Into You. I suggest to read the book. It's an eye-opening.
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    One of the best types of friends that a person can ever have is what we call a 'booty call'. These people are usually easy to find as they can be spotted by there self-depriciating behaviour, outgoing tendancies, and general flirtatious attitude.

    If there is one way for a man to like you, this is the way.

    The trick to being a great booty call buddy is the inability to separate your own desires from those of your partner. This means that when they call you (dont worry that theyre slurring there speech, they are fine) you must drop everything at the drop of the dime to go spend time with them. Love knows no bounds with these people, they will call you up at 4am on a Thursday night to try and demonstrate the love they have for you.

    It is also recommended that on your way to picking up your booty call at there location that you obtain some sort of fast food item as a reward for there deed. Remember, they arent doing this for themselves, this is for you.

  • 10 years ago

    There's always a chance. It could be a timing issue. He could be dating somebody or getting over somebody. But perhaps the timing will work out. You can always keep up the friendly contact just in case. But don't put all your eggs in one basket here.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    You got to find out what he likes and specifically the type of girls he is into. Develop a friendship first.

  • 10 years ago

    yes

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