i wont initiate intimacy with my wife anymore?

The best advice I can give you: Find a hobby and immerse yourself into it. Why? This way you will ignore her and distance yourself form her WITHOUT looking vindictive or manipulative, since it's an innocent hobby. Then she'll come running to you for sex and attention as she quickly realizes how much she misses you. Good luck!

I think u need to address the situation and give ur wife a chance to correct her behavior, before u start cutting things out all together. yeah cutting things out will always damage ur marriage, but in the same hand it may be ur only way to get ur point acrossed. it should ink be a last resort, but if u have communicatred the issue with her then yeah start cutting her off. I don't just mean sexually, after all she doesn't seem to care about that. I mean just be an average husband all the way around and when she asks why, tell her if she's not going to consider your needs and desires why should u consider hers.

I think that you should take her out some place nice to eat and talk to her about how you are feeling and ask her is their something that you can do or something that she would like done to help with the intimacy issue that your having and explain that you don't want it to be a issue that comes between you two and just remind her that you love her and that your not attacking her just don't want any problems in your happy marriage and remind her of how Beautiful she is to you and how you know that their is a GOD that loves you because he gave her to you and this should get you laid GOOD that night...

You already know that it causes problems with marriage, otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Maybe your wife has some kind of problem with getting intimate during sex. You should suggest seeking out counceling. Having sex is important in showing how much love you have for each other, not to mention, a huge stress release.

Perhaps you have been too good to her. Sex can be a very damaging weapon, when used to control or manipulate. Let her know that it is also a normal, basic animal desire...if she won't satify it, you'll find someone who will...that should certainly start a rather lively conversation. Get to the bottom of why she denies you, get a counselor involved if need be.

Others may think you are the best husband and maybe you are/maybe you aren't, what does your wife think?

Either way - something is wrong in your marriage or you chose a woman who has issues.

Yes, it adds to the ruination of your marriage. Have you tried to figure out why there is no sex?

So you are a great husband and give her everything she wants even though she disregards what you want and need ,, right ?

Isn't that rewarding unsatisfactory behavior ?

You might want to consider adjusting that " everything for her " to be a bit more in balance to what she does for you ?

yes , i agree with you . sometimes women enjoy saying no .

after a while this will be had for her