Is he ashamed of me or what?

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My bf and I started dating in February, We added each other on facebook and I sent him a relationship request but he never approved it. I asked him why and he said it was because his facebook was screwed up. I bought it, It went on for the first few months we were together. After a while I just cancelled the request and finally he told me to send another one and he accepted it. It showed we were in a relationship for a little while but then I noticed one day that he hid it on his profile. I asked him about it and he said he didn't know how it happened, which to me is complete BS because you have to change that yourself, don't happen on its own. So I hid it on my profile as well and he got mad about it. Well, finally a few weeks ago I just put on my facebook that I was single. Told him about it and he's totally ok with it....He doesn't acknowledge me as his gf on facebook at all. My family says that he probably don't want anyone to know we're together...and I'm starting to believe it but when I ask him about it, he gets pissed off.

Hazel · Answer

Hiya, didn't quite know what too make of this either! My friend had a similar thing happen too her and she got quite paranoid about it and thought the same thing,that he was ashamed of her. It turned out he just was embarrassed about his family finding out as he had his close relatives as friends, & it wasn't the fact he was embarrassed of her just that family even some friends would tease him! I honestly think that if he was ashamed of you he would have stopped the relationship by the first few month, so i wouldn't worry! hope everything turns out ok & that this helps!

Kc · Answer

Well, he sounds like a chancer. Your family sounds right! Now, why would he want to do that? many answers come to mind: he's interested in seeing someone else. He wants to keep his options open because he doesn't see you as a long term relationship; he is seeing someone else. 
Either way, it sounds like you're wasting your time with him. 

Good luck.

jl · Answer

another reason to hate facebook... if you didnt have fb you wouldnt have this awkwardness

even though i have it myself i hate it... 

anyway sounds like he just doesnt want people to know youre together which seems weird, you need to talk to him about it cos he probably doesnt like you as much as you think... i know if most guys get a girlfriend wed want to show her off to everyone so seems weird that hes hiding it

Anonymous · Answer

maybe his guy friends keep teasing him about it. sit him down and say it's really important to you and you want to know what's going on.

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Is he ashamed of me or what?

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