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guys and girls, advice please?
I am 17 years old and never had a real relationship. I talk to a lot of guys (not multiple at once), but whenever I see things going serious, I am just turned off and stop it. I met this extremely amazing guy; super nice, good looking, and literally perfect. The thoughtful things he does for me are unimaginable and romantic, but for some reason i just don't aprpeciate it as much as I should. I feel weird when he does these romantic thoughtful things for me. I am flattered and love that he thought of doing that for me, but I am weirded out by how serious he is about relationships. Whats wrong with me? why can't i just date someone without being awkwarded out by the whole idea? Should I just go for it and give it a shot in attempts to try and overcome this?
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- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
I think that you should let him know how you feel about relationships. Tell him attachment makes you feel uncomfortable. If you BOTH decide that your feelings for one another are strong enough, that the issue doesn't matter then go for it. But, remember that for time to time, you most likely will have to remind him that you need your space. The best way to be in relationship like this one, is to have good communication with one another. This will push your bond tighter.
Source(s): I'm an aquarius, so I naturally dislike closed relationships. I give my partners space, and I expect the same in return. So have had this talk with many guys. - 10 years ago
I don't think anything is wrong with you, I am the same way, I am 20 years old and have not even had my first kiss, I just don't like it when things get serious, but what you have to remember is that you are young, no need to rush anything, seriously take it slow, your not a 40 year old woman with no kids its okay if serious relationships are not on your mind right now. okay.
- 10 years ago
There's nothing wrong with you for starters. A lot of people get really nervous and put off when they like someone, or when someone really likes them. If you really like the guy, and he likes you, then just explain to him you wanna take things slowly, like just hanging out together for a while first.
A lot of people are afraid of serious relationships, mostly because they're afraid they'll get hurt if they let their guard down or that they think they're undeserving of someone's love, there's nothing wrong with that at all though. Just try to relax and take your time, if he's worth it he won't rush you.
- 10 years ago
yeah go for it. i went through the same thing with a guy i dated, it turned out pretty ok. answwer my question?
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