What happened to my date???? This is so wrong!?

I was asked out by a guy 3 times for dinner and he said he really liked me. The last time we went out was a Wednesday. He asked me out for a wine dinner on Sunday and asked me how I spell my last name for the guest list. He lives 40 minutes away. Thursday and Friday he left for out of town for his job where they have a office a hour and a half away. I called him twice yesterday and left one text. Very simply I said to call me about the details for the wine dinner on Sunday. I have not heard from him since Wenesday night and he called me to say he got home after dinner. This is so wrong and I know I am better off without this kind of person but I would never do this to someone. AT least he could of text and said he had to cancel for blah blah blah reason. I would like to text him and tell him how wrong this is but do not quite know what to say. Today was the day we were going on this date.