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are we really friends?

I am 13 and jus moved to a new town. I met another new girl and she is the only friend i have. i am shy so that is why i only have 1 friend. i think shes annoying and i cant understand her when she talks because she eats food while talking mumbles speaks quietly and fast and i dont show it annoys me i keep it to myself but when she doesnt understand me she groans which i think is really rude. today she told me that instead of working on a project in partners she wants to restart it and do it alone. and we dont have much in common. should i take it or leave it? ( remember im shy and if i do leave how do i make new friends and i cannot just walkup to them)

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Leave it.

    Quality is more important than quantity. But don't ignore her or anything. Talk to her every now and then put don't try to become good friends with someone who you don't share any interests with and is rude to you.

    If you want to make some more friends, COMPLIMENT PEOPLE. JOIN CLUBS. GET A HOBBY. You'll have to walk up to someone in order to make some friends. I used to be shy but I got over it with some practice (I talked to strangers more).

    Good luck!

  • 10 years ago

    If you annoy each other, and she has stated that she doesn't want to be partners with you, then I would say you're not that great of friends. Maybe you can find something to reconnect with each other, but best thing would be to get out of your shell and start talking to people. You're young and have plenty of time to make friends, though I really understand that being a teenager is one of the hardest times to make new friends. Don't worry, soon enough you're going to "fit in" better. I know you probably hear that all the time, but it's true. Take it from someone who had been the "new shy kid."

    Good luck.

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