I need advice for my first time....?

Guys actually like to hear that a girl is a virgin rather then you lying and saying your not. It's more special to know that they are your first. Don't lie to him like that because he will eventually find out. Good Luck. Answer mine pleassssseeeee? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjIe7...

First of all, how could you love someone so much even though you have never actually met? Not to mention, it sounds insane to me that you'd be willing to give yourself to this person after finally meeting for the first time. Take into consideration all of those untrue stories you told about yourself that you've been worrying about. Now, have you ever thought he possibly has done the same? I guess anything can be believable without the chance of talking face to face. You need to stop and think. This isnt the smartest decision I've heard. Be Careful!!

Yes he will be able to tell, but you shouldn't be sleeping with someone who you can't be completely honest with. He won't care that you told him a lie, although he might be confused why you did it (I definitely am). But, if I was you I'd wait a while, even if you've talked to him for ages you need to know him in person to see what he's really like. If he's from another country you'll be together for at least a few days so spend them together and if it still feels right after about a week then do it.

Why would you tell a guy you've never met that you plan on sleeping with him when you meet him? Why don't you give him the keys to your car and your house too?

I talked to a guy I thought I loved online for months before meeting him. When we met, it was terribly awkward and I couldn't wait until he left. Take it from me, you can't love someone you've never met. I don't care how long you've been talking to him, you don't know him. You only know the things he's been telling you, which, chances are, is what you want to hear. Bad idea.

I can't believe it! But there are a lot of people like you out there so...I guess you don't believe in saving sex for marriage. Wait til you get married. You'll regret giving your virginity to this guy who you are not going to be with for the rest of your life. Why does everybody treat virginity like it's a curse? It's the most beautiful thing! When you throw away your virginity you will regret it. You will regret it once it is gone and you will regret it when you finally get married. YOU WILL REGRET IT!

Wait, you never met him and you plan on giving yourself to him right when you guys meet?

o_o

Aren't you scared that once he gets what he wants, he won't bother answer all your emails and everything?

well i hope im mistaken and that he'll be a gentleman, but if i were you, id really get to know him in person before doing anything... and i think he'd know if you're a virgin or not.

yea he's going to know that you're a virgin. your best bet is to maybe find something thats no strings attached real quick so this way you're no longer a virgin or just tell him the truth. if he's any man at all it really wouldnt matter if you're a virgin or not

Sick totally dude,.....fb chat hi,hallo, i wanna have sex.

woooooo hehehehe.

Well,he must be super excited. i bet you'll change your mood by not using a condom. Wooo go girl

you sound like a pornstar.

Cause your so not thinking before even meeting him.

Yes, he'll know but if you tell him just explain why you lied.. and ummmmm,,,,, maybe you should get to know him first, talk in person, spend time together.... DON"T have sex with him when he first gets there!!

He will know.

But he is going to LOVE that you are a virgin.

don't lie.

he wont be upset.

he'll be happy