Moon in sagittarius people and not only, do you often feel disappointed?

You are so similar to my ex, Aquarius sun, Sag moon, Capricorn Venus. He is so stubbornly set on his ideals, but that's what I like about him. He helped me to adopt his ideals and see that he is right in many outlooks on life. I do think that he is turned off by people who live their instincts, instead of high ideals. Perhaps, this was why he gave up on me. He doesn't know though that he helped me change.

As to weakness, although he was set in his ideals, he often gave in to his instincts (intimacy is what I'm talking about). He couldn't help himself, and often times initiated things, only to then regret it, It made me feel horrible, and I always asked him whether intimacy was what he wanted, only to get "yes" as an answer, and then regret after the fact. He is very conflicted, and this is something he struggles with every day. I wonder, if he knew how much he influenced me and how accepting I am of him, would this make any difference?!

But, I think that all this is due to his Sag moon being in combination with Aqua sun.

My mother is a Libra sun, Sag moon, and she is not like that at all. All the choices she's ever made were for own profit; she lives only by instincts, and doesn't concern herself at all with others' points of view on things. It is as if she is the only one in this world. My ex and her have nothing in common in the way they approach life.

@ Chris: Thanks, Chris! I deleted that question, because, judging by the first two answers, I was misunderstood. You got it, though, so thanks again!

@Trail: I don't think I gave him reasons to give up. Perhaps in the beginning I wasn't as accepting of his ideology, but I grew to accept it, because I began feeling what he feels. Our main disagreement was over whether intimacy is ok before marriage. We are extremely attracted to each other, and I think this was really hard on him. Perhaps you can call it insecurity, but I think it was more of conflict: wanting two things at once just as equally - wanting strict adherence to values as much as wanting to be intimate with the person who amazes you. Are you struggling with the same thing?

You actually gave me hope that perhaps he is still accepting of me. He truly fulfilled my life, and I never spoke to him about any of this. You are right, he has no clue how much he influenced me.

And yes, I understand your frustration overall. I feel the same way about people who pretend to agree with you and follow what you believe and then you realize it is all just an act. And for what? They achieve absolutely nothing by their pretenses.

Carrie: this is my answer to your question you deleted, about your Aquarius/good friend lol xD

"i really wish i could email u lol but its ok

i told a Leo gal this once, i told her i held back because of my heartbreak

apart from me complimenting her & giving her all my attention & making her feel beautiful & giving her roses & chocolates haha xD & asking her out to a dance, which she thought would be a Date in her perspective haha i love you Leo girls so much... your vain love is so special

i don't think you need to tell him to be friends, when true love happens, it'll happen, so let him be

if he respects you & loves you In The Way(s), he'd be understanding in any position he's in with you

he'll be comfortable in 'which & what' ways so to speak

your the girl, your the only one who should/can let him in your heart you know what i mean ^^

so i think you don't need to tell him but you can either way if you trust it's the right way you know"