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How to teach my family a lesson ?
I hate my family! I dnt like to suicide or anything like have sympathy. I really wana teach my family a lesson for hurting me and being rude and for not respecting me!!
Iam 18 year old. Iam weak in studys. This make them to boil!!
Oh no!! I really didn't mean like that, iam not soo rude, i was to say that, my parents scoldings hurt me alot . I have never spoken rudely to my parents, i love my parents but, i hate too. Iam not that, much rude son of my family. I do respect them, but i dnt love them.
@sun thanks for ur answer sir,
@ankit ji ya i can overcome every problems, but some times lose the hope. Thanks for ur answer sir ji :)
@krazy Sri ji, i actually didn't mean like that, anywayz everyone hases problem in life. Thanks for ur answer ji :)
@Ellis: thanks for ur answer . Ya it may helps me in solving my problems......
@simran sir, thanks for ur answering.
@rudra sir, thanks for answering. I agree sir, that family is important. I dnt hurt them, but they hurt me. I wanted them to know how much they are underestimating Me .
@sweety@ nidhi ji: iam not brat child!!. I never hurted them intentionally or being rude with them.i respect my family members and if i have child as me , i will be happy person. Because iam wise man and a good man! Anywayz Thanks for ur answer...
@Sax thanks for answering bro :)
13 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
Dear " life " , problems and sufferings in life are common for all , i too was experiencing problem like you , but what happen if everyone thinks like you of taking revenge . its not good to think like that . family members are like five fingers in our hands , not all are same , everyone will differ , you have to adjust them . you cant take action as you think , after all its your family , its your relations , how can you think like that " Blood is thicker than water " .
If you really want to teach them a lesson then set high goal ,work fro that day and night and achieve that goal by doing that your family will become proud of you . achieve some thing in your life . prove to your family that you are not waste . you can do anything .. come on..! trust yourself be confident ..
- Anonymous10 years ago
I know you're not suicidal. You're too egotistical and arrogant to be suicidal. You are and have been a brat for most of your life and your world view pretty much ends at yourself.
I think you should start analyzing your own warped behaviour instead of placing the blame on everyone else. Maybe someday you'll come to accept that others in the world are at least as important as yourself, and many are more so. If you eventually do come to this acceptance, then maybe the next step you take will be treating them as if it is true.
when you get your own place you can do what you want until then you need to live by their rules and stop being such a brat. You say you hate them but I bet when you want something you really love them.
I hope you have kids that are just like you are someday, maybe then you will see why you need to set boundaries for children.
Try to concentrate more on studies. They may like you if you score good marks ??
Good Luck :-)
- 10 years ago
I thought you are a guy out of worries....but i was wrong because everyone has some worries in their life.
Let me tell you one thing that i believe you are thinking wrong about your family. Try rethinking about it with an easy and cool mind. You said your family don't like you because you are weak at studies. See, that actually means they respect you in their mind but they are not showing it to you. They strongly believe that you have great potential but you are not using your skills and opertunities to its fullest. So they scold you to make your life more fruitful. That's kinda their right to guide you. May be the way they are guiding you is not suitable for you. Some parents are like that. They don't know how to express their love to their children. Just calm down and have a talk with your mom and dad or atleast with one among them. Tell them how you feel. And together you can find an effective way to handle each other.
Good luck.
Take care:)
- want2flybyeLv 510 years ago
I think your the one in need of a lesson, life. Your eighteen years old and that is just one inexperienced age and time for most people. Your studies although you say are"weak" is there something you like or excell at, find something of interest to you, focus on that and less on your family and their lack of sympathy or rude human condition, what matters is what matters to you..
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- 10 years ago
You may be 80 but you are always a child in the eyes of your parents. They are not your enemies. You should learn a lesson of adjustment. This is the proper time for doing it. You will understand it when you have children like you.
- 10 years ago
Hello dear! you are just 18. There are many mountains to cross in your life. Don't think your family to be villainistic. Bear in mind, there shall be no one in this world to take interest in our life as our Family takes. If you believe they are rude just not care their words. You do what you like. Weak in studies is nothing. There are people who conquered the world without shining in Studies. So concentrate on things that you are interested, like sports. Best wishes.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Frankly what i wanna say that the people who try to do the thing what you are saying for your family in my view is a COWARD...yeah that's true i said coward..
hey doesn't matter yaar what they say but it doesn't mean that you should do the same thing in return.....
yeah in my view what i guess you since from these many days is that yadav chys a kind of person who is brave,who is the only personal who think that life is colourful.....
you was my inspiration yaar...oh not ''was'' but you are my inspiration towards life...
Never leave your humbleness and change yourself for others yaar....never think that you are weak, think that you can just do it.....thats all i can say...take care..
keep smiling it gonna Rocks for you!! God bless you...
once you suggested me this song and till now i listen this:
Source(s): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q7QQLsC7QEw - 10 years ago
step
1) Correct your grammar always makes things seem realer.
2) Next time your family goes out rob them
3) Take some small things that you know are very valuable
4) Hide them in your room
5) 1 day later after the family member notices put it back
6) Repeat stead 2, 3, 4, and 5
7) AFter the family member thinks they're going crazy and makes drastic measures spill the beans and they will be like O DAMN
Results You're family feels stupid embarrassed you are satisfied and nobody was hurt LEASSON LEARNED!!!
- ?Lv 610 years ago
what ??? i never expected you wil post such a qn ! ok .. relax.. u r poor in academics ! and thats the reason for your problems rite ?
do 1 thing ! do something extraordinary.. use any of your skills and achieve something n prove it to your family !
imagine ! sachin was not good in academics .. but .. today he is a star ! same case with many great ppl ! so cheer up ! hav a positive outlook on life
- Anonymous10 years ago
c its nt r8ht 2 do so.its d dream of each of our parents 2 c us successful in our lyf which is poss only by securing gud marks in xms.its nt their fault tht thy also drm lik every1 abt their child.
if u r wk its nt ur fault try ur best.do every poss ways 2 gt btr marks.if u r weak tk privt tutns,counselling,regular xms etc
bt if u do nt lyk studies n want 2 go 4 some other fld thn 1st u decide in which fld u wnt 2 enter.u r 18 thn u must hav fnshd ur h.s. nw u can go 4 any other fld n try 2 persuade ur parents.
it would hav bn d same in my cs 2 if i were in ur plc.infct it hpnd 1nce also bt i understnd my fault n gv my bst.its nt their fault.1st understnd wht u wnt n 4gt dis revenge matter.just remem 1 thng thy r doing 4 ur gud.i rly do nt knw how r thy trting u bt if thy r being alttl strict i will nvr blm dem.