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Ok me and my EX-girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago b/c she said she didn't have time to be with me,even though she claimed that she loved,also some of my friends told me they saw her kiss another guy but i trusted her so I gave her the benefit of the doubt,anyway we broke up and it crushed me but i've been managing and everything has been going well for the past 2 weeks,a week ago my EX texted me,we hadn't talked since the break up,she said that she missed me and wanted to talk b/c we ended on bad terms,she suggested going out for lunch this weekend,I told her if she wanted to we could,then she got mad and was saying that she just said she wanted and then she was like just forget it,I text her back saying that when she was ready we could talk but she didn't text back,also I whent by her in school today and she kinda gave me a dirty look,I was in a group of my friends,I still kinda have feelings for her that's why I'm kinda depressed about this,what should I do? Should I try to talk to her or just walk away? I kinda feel like she might be playing mind games,thank you so much to anyone who helps.

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Pie

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She's not playing mind games.  She's as confused as you are.

First off, if she really did kiss that boy, she's feeling guilty.
Second, her friends probably pressured her into breaking up with you (whether or not she actually did kiss that guy, if they felt the need to tell you so, it shows that they aren't in support of your relationship).
Third, she's torn between wanting you to hate her and wanting you to still love her.  She knows that she hurt you, and she doesn't know how she wants you to feel about her, but any way that you feel will not be exactly right to her.  There is no way of winning that.
So fourth, she kind of resents you for being nice to her, because she feels like an awful person.
Fifth, when she texted you and asked if you wanted to get lunch, she expected (or hoped) you to say no, so that surprised her and she lashed out.

It's been two weeks.  Things will get better.  Just give her some space right now and let her figure things out for herself.

kt · Answer

If she honestly missed you and wanted to talk about fixing things then she wouldnt of got all pissy and gave you a dirty look. 

She probably is playing games & listen to your friends about the whole kissing thing because it most likely did happen and thats why she broke up with you because they seen her cheat on you.

Just leave her alone, its her loss. Find someone who wants you back, you seem like a great guy(:

dareman · Answer

if she's playing mind games with you why not hump 1 of her close friends, tell her friend she was a much better ride and i garentee you that the news will get back to her. then ask your self who won the stupid mind game war

Anonymous · Answer

Dont let her play you walk away

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She is really playing you there mate, just walk away and wash your hands of her.

Amy Conley · Answer

walk away

lirra · Answer

just forget that she exists!

time heals the wound.

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walk away....

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