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Awkward situation with a girl. Help please...?

So basically the story is this, I was at a party last weekend when I ran into a friend of mine. We were both rather intoxicated, and ended up hooking up towards the end of the night. Its a weird situation because I havn't talked to her about it since. Idk if she is mad at me, embarrassed, doesn't remember (quite possible since we were both drunk), etc, but I don't want to be the one to bring it up. What should I do?

By the way, she is in a couple of my classes so its not like I can just avoid her. And I'd like to stay friends with her, but I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    bring it up! even though you say you dont want to ! if she doesnt remember then make her remember... i dont think she can deny what happed if she wanted to! she wont make a big deal about it...your thinking about it too much! haha :)

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    My suggestion is find a way to talk to her, start with a casual conversation and act like your perfect friends. I'm sure you'll get a feeling if shes mad, sad, or doesn't remember. if you don't get a feeling for it in the first few conversations she could also just be a really good actor (girls are either really good or really bad at that) but if you can't get a feeling for the situation, wait a few conversations and see if you can bring up the topic of parties and if she isn't catching on don't drop it and give up, if your interested in her edge into the topic and get it off your chest, if she wants to talk about it she'll bring up the subject, if not, just find a way to make sure she knows that your friendship is important to you and even if it may be hard don't hold this in any longer than necessary. (try to keep any judgmental tones or words out of the conversation if you can help it, you cant win a friend pointing fingers if you know what i mean haha) Hope I could help! :)

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    thats a girl for you just embarrsed and shy now cuz youve seen the whole her if you know what i mean but well best way to handle that is to be a man go up to her and see whats shes been up to and after a minute of conversation say listen {her name} i know this might sound stupid but what happened the other night was great but i dont want to loose you as a friend we were both drunk lets forget it ever happened and be friends again i miss you. if you cant do it in person write her a note

  • 10 years ago

    You should have talked to her the day after it happened. Waiting has created an awkward situation and trust me she feels just as weird. She won't talk to you first but definitely wants and needs to know how you feel. You are going to have to bring it up. Tell her, fix it. Good Luck :)

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  • 10 years ago

    Simple ! To stop you from hurting her feeling if she feel more strongly then you , and you want to stay friends : with a very nice smile tell her that you are sorry for what you did and that her friendship is very important to you ! You ware just drinking

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    go up to her and simply say "do you remember (whatever night)? it's kinda hazy for me." and see what she says. then say "i just want to make sure we're still friends." leave it there. hopefully she gets the message. if not...be blunt. she should get it though.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    just let her know whats on your mind, dont hold nothing baq and she wont either truss me um good at things like this yua know*

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Just grope her and say "we should just be friends"

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