Is it ok for my girl friend to be going out with a " friend " to the mall and out to eat?

I think that is weird. My husband would kill that guy. She shouldn't be going out with a man unless he's gay, because I know and I'm sure you know how straight men are. That would not be allowed in the relationship, especially if it's bothering you. You need to speak up and tell her what you think about it, but be nice, because she may not see that it is wrong until you open up and tell her how that makes you feel. There is no way to know if he's trying to get with her or not, or if shes up to no good. If she doesn't care how you feel, you will need to move on, because that would just be another dead end relationship.

I mean, I wouldn't worry.

But keep an eye on him. Dont go snooping around but ask questions. As a boyfriend is understandable to be worried like that. If he buys her anything expensive, then worry. You can even invite him over for dinner and get to know him.

My GF has tons of guy friends, alot of which are better looking than me. I trust her, but it took time to get to that level of trust.

Just keep an eye out for him. I find that completely strange. I'd watch out for that girlfriend of yours too. Something's weird about that. My boyfriend gets so mad when i go out with any of my guy friends and he is right because twice, i've gone out without my bf, those guy friends have tried something. So beware, and know what going on...

Dont go over the top with your actions

If she wants to do this she has a right to do what she wants

Make sure she is happy with you and she will never leave you

She will eventually stop seeing him

well he is a bit creepy, he might be on to something.

let you friend to go on that date.

but you should keep an eye on her just to make sure that the friend is not umm well trying to do something bad.

hope this helps

i have guy friends like that except they'd never want to go shopping but ya, u should just trust her, she will get if u make a big deal about it

mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AurFV...

Hmmmm....the fact that he initiates shopping trips with her makes me raise an eyebrow. Maybe he's gay.

talk to your girl how you feel about it. if she doesn't care let her go but be strong because is hard man. i been through that and is hard but not impossible.. good luck

just talk it out with her, communication is the key. tell her what you said here

you are just getting possessive. And nothin else