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I'm afraid I will stay single forever :(?
here is the problem: I'm now 18 years old,never had a boyfriend :(
In my first year of university,and I'm good looking,however a bit shy.
The reason I'm asking that question is because,I always thought that I will find someone at unviersity when I will be older,but sadly there are too many people on campus and I feel like I will stay single forever. I'm 18 and a virgin which is even worse.......Its weird but I feel like I'm going crazy over that...even my mom would be like..omg your 18 and you dont go out with guys, and I will be like...mom I cant find one.. :( help
10 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
stop worrying
you are 18 years old
you have plenty of time to meet a guy
you just haven't met a guy that you like yet. but you will
being a virgin at 18 is not as bad as your making it out to be, you will find that decent men actually like a woman who has respect, and doesn't throw herself at any guy for sex
Source(s): opinionated - LadybugsLv 510 years ago
Being a virgin is a good thing. I wish I was one, and I'm 32. I regret having sex with men I didn't care about (or I thought I cared, but I really didn't).
Men find virgins attractive and appealing. They might not treat you the way they would treat a slut, but that is a compliment - it means they are not ready for something serious and would rather spend time with a woman who is easy sexually.
When they turn 25-30 they will come to you in PACKS because you're the good looking virgin who has finished her university and is ready for a wonderful marriage with all the things you've ever dreamed of.
Answer my questions?
- Anonymous5 years ago
Little Princess, do not worry! My friend was the same way. She felt sad and depressed because she didn't have a boyfriend until she turned 19. And guess what, all of those years of waiting were worth while because right now she is with an amazing guy! They have been together for six months. Just be confident and happy with yourself, as cliche as it may sound, the right guy will knock on your door when you least expect it! Good luck :)
- 10 years ago
First of all, the fact that you're 18 and a virgin is soooooo hot. Which you probably think I'm on crack right now because I'm saying this - but as a dude we generally don't want to put our penises where other penises have been - So as you can imagine, a virgin is like the rare golden apple that's never been touch, and we want to be the first to touch it.
On another less enthusiastic note, I'm kind of in the same boat with you and when you find your answer let me now what it is.
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- flingebuntLv 710 years ago
Despite what you see in the movies and tv, most people don't lose their virginity until their 20s.
Also your friends who lose their virginity brag about it, but the others keep quiet about it.
OMG you are 18 and a virgin...OMG you are 18 and in the majority.
Look people who lose their virginity later in life usually also enjoy more interesting sex lives than people who lost their virginity early.
Anyway, there are lots of ways to meet guys.
Now college is supposed to be the time of lots of sex, parties, sex, drugs, sex, alcohol, sex and more sex.
Is this what you want? Then go out, find a guy and have sex with him, then find other guys to have sex with.
But if you want a relationship, there are lots of ways to meet people.
If you like a guy, go up and talk to him. Ask for help "how to do problem 10 in this chapter, what do you think about this."
Ask about other things, such as what they like to do, where they like to go etc. Talk about the things you like. Oh, I love xyz band, you like them too. They are playing this weekend, but I don't know if my friends are free to go...oh you are free and will take me...cool.
You can also meet people through clubs and other groups.
Parties are not so good. Too many people drinking to really meet a boyfriend but easy to find someone for sex.
- 10 years ago
Ok. you're 18, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being single and a virgin at this age. Love isn't everything its cracked up to be sometimes, sometimes it's dreadfully painful and sometimes its glorious. you're young and have plenty of time to find someone and when you stop looking, you'll find what you're looking for, it seems to be the law of the universe.
- 10 years ago
its fine trust me id had hardy any girlfriends the once i had lasted little time im 17 and a virgin nothing to be bother about you will find someone socialise more often talk to more people look to see if any guy looks like he likes you you never know there might have been loads of guys wanting to date you that you havent noticed
- 10 years ago
Dress nicely more put make up try get some guy attention but dont show be slutty guys like that but dont be something your not you will find a guy i wish my first was a virgin like you but hey we are not lucky.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Worry about school right now :) trust me, you WILL find someone .. There's probable a boy out there in the same position as your in, there's prolly a million aha :) u got nothing to worry about
- Anonymous10 years ago
Please oh please email me. Let me help you.
I'll be your boyfriend
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