Did my 11 year old son have sex!?

Tell him that you no longer trust him being home alone and that are arranging for someone to be in the house or for him to go to someone else's house after school until you get home. Also, rethink your decision to let him date. Condoms aren't necessarily the answer, coming down on him hard and rethinking your decision is.

As for the raging hormones, sign him up for some sports, go running with him, play basketball, etc. Take some of the edge off of his pent up energy.

A la Dr. Phil... Are you kidding me??!!

Note sure where you live, but a child of tender years left unsupervised by a parent is an offense. Why is a child of this age allowed to have a girlfriend/boyfriend or date? Left alone... no brainer. No!!

Educate your child, and yourself, and arm with knowledge. Condoms are not an option at this time. They also have a failure rate of about 15% when used correctly. A child has no such ability, either physically or psychologically. An adult who condones, even overtly, the activities of a child that might lead to sexual conduct is complicit to a crime.

I really am shocked by your question and situation as noted. I hope it is not real. You are the parent, so parent.

Due to the nature of the situation and the tender young age of both children involved, it may be helpful first to bring both sets of parents/guardians together to talk with a trusted/recommended counselor or pastor. Occasionally there are deeper issues that need to be addressed in each child that may be helped by bringing a trained professional into the situation. For example, the action that you saw could easily just be the tip of the iceburg...perhaps the actual "iceburg" is some underlying issues that need to be brought up, addressed, and healed.

You should not be leaving a boy and a girl that aren't siblings alone together. They're too young for this kind of behavior. I suggest you monitor what they do together.

Last time you posted this you said he was almost 13. I think you may be a troll.

Omg I was laughing through this whole thing I'm sorry I kinda found it funny

Just talk to him. Make sure you seem calm and open minded or he probably won't tell you the truth.

i understand waht you feeling. but you need to have sex talk with him but understand control ur emotion when he might confess you if said he already have sex then you said ok give him condoms simple

Be the parent we wish we all had and give him condoms. Besides if he's only 11 I highly doubt he even knows what sex is.

I can't be bothered reading all that sh*t. anyways thanks for the 2 points! (: