I Have A Reverse Anger Issue Please Help?

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Hi im Albert. I have a reverse Anger issue where i can NOT get angry and i want help to know how to trigger it.

There have been situations in my life where it is perfectly reasonable to get angry yet i dont. i need help to get mad.

For example once some guy was yelling and cussing at my girlfriend in front of me and i did not get mad.

Another time i was gonna have a child in a hospital with a girl and there was another father i didnt get mad.

Another time my brother broke all my things and i didnt get mad. he cusses at me talks smack pushes me hits me and i dont get mad

I need help being able to trigger anger or something that will allow me to use my strength to defend things.

Like ive gotten into fights i dont hold back

i always hold back i never actually fight fight. i always try to hold someone down or just let them hit me

please help its important. dont tell me to think of the things that have upset me and let it out i need a real tactic thanks

im not repressing otherwise i would know it. i feel it i want to but i cant idk why please help

DK52 · Accepted Answer

I think you need help understanding that your lack of violence and "showing" anger when you should be angry is NOT a bad quality.

Remaining calm during a moment others would become violent and or show enraged feelings allows you time to THINK and to make better decisions.

If you are angered all you have to do is SAY SO rather than act like a complete a$$.

I will also add this to you: If I did something to you in which I KNOW full well you should be angry with me and you merely say "DK that was very wrong and you should watch your back" and I did the same thing to another who acted all tough and mucho, yelling, screaming and pitching a fit... I would be more afraid of you than the fool!

Quiet people are the ones that usually put the worst hurting on someone that has done them wrong and they do it gracefully and elegantly.

So I repeat: You do NOT need to change how you respond, you just need to respond.

daughdrill · Answer

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