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I like someone but he has a girlfriend.?
Me & him barely met this year. But we have gotten SUPER close. Like we always hang out & we ditch class together. One time I even went to his house, we talked alot that day. He would tell me things that he never told anyone else. I felt really special, like he told me things that he doesn't even tell his GF. Like we just have this great connection where we can talk about anything. & while I was at his house we layed on his bed & I just played with his hair. I felt like a couple, he said he loves it when people touch his hair. I really like him & its hard to get over him. I tried ignoring him but that was impossible. His smile is just so cute it makes me feel all tingly inside. But the horrible part is he has a gf & they have been together for over a year. I keep trying to stop but I JUST CAN'T! I feel like he leads me on at times. I already told him that i had feelings towards him, about 2 weeks ago & nothing. My friend said that I should have asked if he had any feelings towards me. But I think that will come off as desperate. Or should I have asked him? I need HELP. How can i make him tell me how he feels for me? & How can I get over him..? Please full detail, I'd really appreciate it(:
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- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
I actually had similar experience as yours. The guy and I know each other for a year and he has been engaged in a 5years relationship. Things changed when we get closer to each other and just like your case, he shares many things to me which he wouldn't share with his girlfriend. I felt special and I am his special friend. But this doesn't change his love for his girlfriend. He talks to you because you are willing to listen and he doesn't has to impress you. Not because he likes you too. Moreover, he cannot share everything to his girlfriend because he loves her and he wants to preserve the good image in her heart. I know deep inside you wish that he would feel the same but at the same time you feel that you cannot be so evil wanting them to break up. What you can to do is to distance yourself from him and open yourself to meet more guys. That's the way to back off without looking too desperate. Yes, you can continue to like him more than just a friend but don't try to impress him anymore because at the end of the day he only wants to impress his girlfriend.
- 10 years ago
It is so hard to get an emotional answer from a guy even when he is your friend. I think you should just be there for him, be positive making him happy. Do thinks that make him happy. Then when the day they break up you are there to help him through and guess what you will probably be the next girl!! Good luck hun!
