How to solve in laws problem with our being vegan?

It's up to Tim to make sure that there's no issues between you and the in laws.

Since they excluded your dietary choice from his party (I understand not making he cake and main dish vegan since he's not, but more than a side salad would have been nice), he should talk to his parents about having more vegan options in the future for plans that include the two of you. As for when you have a baby, it's none of their business, it's between the two of you (plus, it's healthier to have the baby at a younger age).

If there's any friction between the inlaws, it's up to the spouse to be the one to smooth things over. Just like if your parents were to disrespect him, it would be up to you to talk to your parents on behalf of him.

I agree with the answers above...

Pot-luck style... maybe you could have something ready in the freezer for the occasions that they don't pre-arrange with you...

It's really insensitive. I dont knock others who eat meat. I dont like being knocked because I dont eat it. Speak to your husband to be, tell him how it makes youfeel. ou dont want to be stuck up, but a little consideration on their part really isnt much to ask for...

and you're right about the children thing... dont listen. you and Tim already discussed it. it's your marriage, not your in-laws. besides, the older you are, the more the possibility for problems in pregnancy. And never abort... I have heard horror stories about women who cannot forgive themselves for taking the life of their own child... besides, even if you do have a slip and fall pregnant earlier, then that's it. It happened. You're still gonna love the child.

Be aware though that birth control pills used for a long time can cause cancer and it really messes up your hormones... My sister in law used the stuff for 11 years, and when she treid to come off it, her hormones went whack! Not sure if there is a safe alternative, but I think keeping an eye on your cycles, booking it and marking the safe areas, you'll be fine. That's what my mom did when she was married, and her inlaws thought she was infertile - but she just had control

ok sorry for the detour, but hope this helps you!!!

I know exactly how you feel i am not a vegan myself but i use to be & i go on vegetarian diets all year round only eating chicken/or turkey once every few months,but i have always been surrounded by meat-eaters & i learned early on to cook 4 myself because some ppl may not really understand what to cook for you or they just think your being picky.-_-

My whole life i've been this way & now at 22 my family (mom) has just really started acknowledging it & may randomly make things not containing meat (for me) but all in all your on your own & not until time goes by will they see its a serious food choice.And for the pregnancy thing,that is yours & tim's choice(not his mother's) when you decide to have one, this is not a remake of his mother's life but the beginning for a whole new one for you & him

Good Luck :)

being vegetarian is a personal choice, why are you bothered that people exclude you. Obvioulsy you in-laws have no idea how to cater to you. so either show up early to help cook or bring your own food and sto complaining.

Sometimes people have better things to think about then catering to all your needs

When I go to supper to family or friends that are not used to veggy people, i try to snack before

and i'll eat whatever I can find acceptable.

because when meat eaters come to my house I won't start cooking steak for them so why should they do the same

Wow. I'm sorry your inlaws are so thick-headed and insensitive. Your future-husband should stick up for you more regarding his parents. Perhaps in the future, events like this should take place at your place, and be a "pot luck" style? That way everyone can provide something, and you'll be certain to get what you need in regards to nutrition.

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