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ok, i said: "i'll try not to do anything stupid in the mean time"
her: "i care about you"
me: i know you do, and i'll make sure not to do anything dumb tonight"
her: "thankyou Nathan, i'll give you anything"
me: "and i'll only ask what i need"
her: "Anything... At all"
me: "thank you"
her: "i mean it"
me: "i know you do, i'm just not ready to ask that much of you yet"
her: "okay"
so now, here's a little back story, i got dumped, and i'm not over my ex yet. What does this conversation mean? i'm not really thinking normally right now, so i'm not too sure.
obviously she cares for me, but anything more than just friends?
she's not my ex
also guys...currently, i am a self harmer...so would that make any difference
40 Answers
- ?Lv 510 years agoFavorite Answer
Girls are not dumb. They also do NOT use words and meaning casually. Her meaning was crystal-clear if you had three brains cells and a sister. Or a pair on you. Dinner bell is ringing and you're not listening.
What you choose to do about it is up to you, but now you do have a choice to make. Just don't wait too long to make it.
- 10 years ago
Sounds like she want's to do a little dance...
Make a little love...
Well pretty much get down tonight...
LOL
It sounds like she is letting you know she want's you and has wanted you for a long time. But if your not into her like that. You have got to let her know. She is watching the clock (so to speak) waiting for you to be ready. And if, (when your ready) you realize it's NOT her you want to move on with. It will more than likely crush her. So, if shes not crazy *crosses fingers for you* lol, she will understand that your not ready and if she is a friend and understanding she will wait and just be supportive. Good luck!! And sorry about your break up, I hope you find a way to move on soon!
- Anonymous10 years ago
alrite , so it sounds alot like this girl deeply cares for you and it is actually REALLLY obvious. What u wanna do is, play it cool. if she wants you she will come to you. Keep an eye out for more signals or signs that are meaningful. i know someone that recently got dumped and is emo and has a girl who currently cares for him alot.. and that smeone happens to be my best friend.. listening to his stories might let me understand more of what your goin through. You know, girls just LOVE to play games and give mixed messages and unclear messages but sometimes they are REALLLY CLEAR, like this one.. take my word for it, go out there, get her, and have fun with life alrite ? no need for you to be a self harmer!! trust me im only 12 and i went through ALOT! more than you could ever think of.. i had was homeless for 2 whole months, because my mom cheated on my dad, my dad went crazy in the head, i wasnt aloud to see my mom for almost a year and sh*t soo dont wooryy!! and i was 9 all the way through 11 .. i put up with it for 2 whol years. so please eventho i dont kno u, i still dont like hearing tht u hurt urself. thts not ok bro. :) time heals evry wound and life is just a journey, ur choices, ur mistakes, ur life, just f**king live it (;
Source(s): from the mindd of a 12 yearold 7th grader just tryin to live her own f**king life (; - 10 years ago
She wants to use you for sex. End of story. Sounds like you've picked a slut. I would steer clear and go back to your ex. For you to have been with her for a while, she's probably of a lot better caliber than this chick. Just don't do it. The only girls I know that are that forward are trash, so look for a girl that's better.
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- 10 years ago
If she dumped you, she probably doesn't have romantic feelings for you anymore.However, if you guys dated you obviously had a very close bond, so she cares for you and you will have a different kind of connection with each other from now on. If she likes you, I think she will let you know more straightforwardly. Thank you for answering mine :) Good luck
- 10 years ago
Sounds like she really cares about you but your self harming ways might scare her away and she cant handle the drama so you are kinda pushing her away maybe. And seems like she wants to be there for you though.
- 10 years ago
It sounds to me like she likes you and would want to be more than friends. She is emphasizing that she would give you anything, which makes me think that she wants you to ask her for something. You would just have to pursue that to see if it is what it seems.
- 10 years ago
she likes you way more then just friends, she wants to be with you. and she sounds really sweet. and its good that you can admit you arent over your ex. it will save you both alot of hurt. tell her you like her (unless you dont) but tell her that you are not over your ex yet so you dont want a relationship and its nothing against her you just care about her way to much to hurt her!!!
good luck. :)
- 10 years ago
You need to speak to her, and find out her real feelings. If you are not over your ex, then it might be unfair on this girl, play cool and get to know her first.
Source(s): life - 10 years ago
th eonly way to find out if shes just being friendly or flirty is to push it a little bit..
girls tend to get extra friendly when they are trying to make a guy feel better. so next time you talk to her spice things a little bit see how she responds. then you'll know