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It is starting to get Difficult.?

I have known by bestie for 3years and this is going to be our 4th year being friends.(were both girls BTW) anyways we have always made jokes and talk random stuff all the time, now recently I am starting to get bored being around her and our new friends (were both 9th graders) I want to keep my friendship with her IDK what to do any help? Second- This guy liked me and we would text all the time, but I didnt like him like that only as a friend. Well one day I told him and he said it was alright. But he has ignored me and he has told my friend that I lead him into thinking that I liked him and that it was all my fault. So I only had him for one class. So I was relieved until I got changed and now I also have him for p.e and its so weird with him soo awkward. Especially when am in the swimming pool and he watches me. I want to be friends again yet I can seem to know how to approach him. Any ideas? Thanks :)

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  • 10 years ago
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    1) Just hang with some other people.

    2) If that were me, I'd go and kick the sh!t out of that guy. Don't bother trying to be friends with him.

    I agree with the answer above. I try very hard to educate myself. I don't know how it works in the USA, but in England we need to take at least 5-13 exams when we're 16 (GCSES), and we need to get at least 5 A*-C's (an A* is like an A+), then the year after take 3-4 more (AS levels), then the year after take 3-4 more (A levels) THEN we go to University. So don't waste your time over petty things like these. Start educating yourself. Then you can get into college and meet some real friends, and a real man.

  • 10 years ago

    You are a perfect example of what I was telling my parents about just a week ago.

    The American Public Education System is ineffective in reaching the majority of students. Students are often indifferent or preoccupied when being taught.

    Students spend more of their time trying to develop their social skills in school than they do trying to educate themselves. I told my parents that if I could relive my teen years I would focus on education, and de-prioritize socializing & dating greatly.

    Many students taking dating and friendships in high school very seriously. They could instead challenge themselves more to prepare themselves for adulthood. And being older demands more of you. Why not get ready?

    Good luck

  • 10 years ago

    It's not necessary to change your friend to your enemy be friend with her you shouldn't have her as your best friend ,have her as just a distanced friend.

    Source(s): My own experience
  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It's high school. Things change when you get into high school.

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