I'm scared...please help!?

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So i'm 16 years old and i'm pretty small and weak by anyones standards and i probably look like a victim anyway but life has a way of being unfair to me. 
This all went down a week or two ago at my school. There is this girl in the grade above me and she is pretty scary (to me at least). She is like proper emo and even though she's not that tall and is quite slim she would win a fight against me any day. after school when everyone else had gone home and i was getting changed after a club (the last one out as usual) is when it happend. i had just finish changing and was leaving when she can into the changing room and stood bloking the door. i asked her to move but then she came towards me and slammed me up against the wall. I was so afraid i started to scream but she slapped me in the face.
I'll spare you the details but basically she made me french kiss her. she said that if i told anyone she'd hurt me and then left.
I'm afraid this will happen again (maybe she'll go further) and i don't know what to do. I'm also ashamed that i didn't try to fight her and that she'll use that against me.
If it comes down to her word against mine because i'm not a model student i think they will believe her. 
please help me!

? · Accepted Answer

I see your point and everything but she's probably just never had anybody before. She probably won't take it further. Stop blaming everything on life. You have the same opportunities as everybody else and you may not be strong but there are people worse off out there. Sorry but I have no time for pessimistic people : /

Anonymous · Answer

If it's really frightening you, tell someone, no matter what she's said. Even if you're not a model student, this was a direct threat,  your school should take this seriously and your parents too. For now just trying hanging around with a group of friends, it'll make you feel safer.
Try getting her on her own and talking to her, I know this'll be really scary but you have to keep with it. Do it in a class room at lunch or something, but get your friends to stand outside, then if you get really scared (even if she's not done anything) you can just leave the room. I'm not exactly sure why she'd do it, that's something you need to find out. Listen to some music that makes you feel powerful, don't get angry with her but be confident, shout at her if you have to. You need to get her to listen to you.
If you've got nay more questions, just post them in the description, I'll check it tomorrow.

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