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Help me get over a girl?
Today I got simply rejected for the first time. She was nice and whatever, but now it's starting to hit me. I keep having this weird idea that she might take it back, but I know that it won't happen in a million years. Please do something to help me close my Facebook, turn off my phone, etc.
Seriously I need to get over this idea that she'll change her mind. I know it's stupid, but why can't I get over it?
9 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
Im dealing with the same issue it´s really hard i know.. one thing you can do is get some kind of hobby to get your mind of her. Hope this helped!
Source(s): Life - 10 years ago
Getting dumped or rejected for the first time is very hard. Focus on your school, or work. Try your best to get your mind off of it.
The only thing that heals things like this is time. It will get better.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Act like you are over it when you see her. Try and talk to other girls when she's around. Hang out with your friends and do activities that you enjoy to keep your mind off of her. You will meet someone new in no time! Who knows she might get jealous and want you after seeing you with other girls. good luck!
- 10 years ago
Remove her as your friend on Facebook. It may or may not be hard for you to do it but it'll be a start though. If you have her number, delete it. To move on from somebody, you gotta start by cutting off all your connection with her. Once you do that, move on to the next one cause their plenty of fine women in this world :)
- Anonymous10 years ago
Being rejected for the first time SUCKS! i know. But the best thing to do is keep yourself occupied. Go for a run,excersize,eat,watch a horror movie and cheer on the bad guy,watch a marathon,read a book,play on your computar,ANYTHING.
Source(s): What I did. (: - Anonymous10 years ago
first: get lost of confidence!
second: go out with friends, surround yourself with the ones you love
third: be bold, dont look down when the walks by or blush, keep a reg face
try to get that you will see her around sometimes and get used to it.
tough love lol good luck!!!
Source(s): had it happen to me before - 10 years ago
Go for a walk, or play a video game. Just do something that will get your mind off her.
- Anonymous10 years ago
Yea it sucks, such is life "In life you must come to accept that sometimes your the pigeon and other times your the statue". Work harder, study harder, play harder, basically work yourself to death and you won't have time to miss her. It is okay to still be friends.
