Is it considered cheating on my boyfriend with a girl ?

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I just recently started dating this guy, hes very moody and i hate that i told him it was done but he said he would change his attitude and not to let what we have just go like that give him time because hes trying to change and make this realationship work. His parents also know me so he even told them we were dating... I believe he does care alot about me but hes in too deep with his ways, time will tell what happeneds.....But i recently met a girl and im starting to have feelings for her I have never been with a girl , but she has......I dont know would that be considered cheating if im seeing her getting to know her?

Percy · Accepted Answer

Yes, of course it's cheating - the gender doesn't matter. If you're just kind of seeing her a couple of times, trying to figure out your own feelings, that's one thing, but if you're kissing her or anything like that, the right thing to do is break it off with your boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Having sex with someone else is cheating.  Wouldn't YOU think it was cheating if HE was starting to see a girl?

Getting to know someone, in a relationship-oriented way, is cheating.

Break up with the boyfriend if you can't resolve your issues.  But you can't work on the relationship with HIM if you're already looking around for someone else.  it sounds to me like you've already mentally walked away from the relationship, and if you have you should do the decent thing and tell him it's over.

? · Answer

I don't think getting to know her is bad,
but as soon as you cross the line it is
considered cheating, even if she's not
even a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes! im a lesbian and if my gf cheated in me with a guy i'd be so devestated

? · Answer

i dont think so, my bf says it is... and that he should be allowed too as well, but i dont think it goes that way..

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