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How to facebook chat someone you never facebook chat?
So, I have this crush on a friend. But we're no close friends. We have mutual friends, and sometimes we'll eat in the cafeteria together (college btw) but we're not close enough yet that we talk a lot outside of dinner or class. I've thought about facebook chatting (I usually just look at the little green online circle, and then do nothing). But I don't know if it's creepy to suddenly just say Hi. How do I keep the conversation going, and not feel like I'm pushing myself on him. I just wanna be close friends. Suggestions for the inexperienced?
8 Answers
- Anonymous10 years ago
Well Im not saying this to scare you or anything but it definitely is a little creepy, I mean a lot of random guys I don't know too well msg me and when they do, all I think is why is this person messaging me and it's honestly pretty creepy when you don't know the person. So I would suggest since you guys have lunch on the same table, you should try and get to know him in person first :)
- Anonymous10 years ago
Say hi and bring up something you talked about at lunch that you could potentially keep talking about. Let the conversation go wherever you two end up taking it. Trust me if you two have any kind of connection he will not be weirded out by you sending him a fb message. You know how girls like guys with confidence? Guys like girls with confidence too. GO FOR IT!!!
- 10 years ago
first find some common ground, school assignment ususally work. if you're in one of his classes start the converstaion with something like, " hey, do you know what we have to do for such and such?" that kinda makes the person not so creeped out that you're randomly saying hi to him on fb. ususally i ask for help after that, as if i dont understand something and maybe ask him a few questions slightly related to the topic, and after that the conversation is started! it might also help to talk to him more in real life before talking to him on fb cause it makes him a bit more comfortable around you and, once again, not so creeped out. have fun and good luck!
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- 10 years ago
Just say hi. He probably won't find it awkward. The only thing I would worry about is what you're going to talk about. You don't want to make it too personal, but you don't want it to be awkward either.
- 10 years ago
just chat him up!! i've had people do that to me, and i'll admit i thought it was strange at first but then it made me happy that they were thinking of me. just make good conversation and don't be boring or awkward, be yourself:) works every time. remember, confidence is sexyy:) good luckk!
- 10 years ago
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Just do it! Say hello and if he responds ask him something related to school.
- Anonymous10 years ago
just do it! facebook him, text him, do something!! :)
