How can Americans Import the Indian tradition of arrainged marriages?

I think its great

Your stats are a little misleading. Women SHOULD have more jobs than men because there are MORE women than men in our population. Too, a BIG problem is that a lot of American women who aren't married ARE HAVING TOO MANY CHILDREN. Finally, since when should woman be obliged by someone else to marry a particular person. In America, everything is "freedom of choice". Don't confuse America with "dictatorships". That's what I'm thinking. Good luck. Peace

Hmmm..

well sweety..

so ur main concern is that u'll become minority in ur own country..

and u dont want that to happen rt..

hmm well we have been raised like this..

we live our culture .. so its like in our blood ...

if u want americans to follow this.. woule be near damm impossible ..dont u think..

i mean look at the facts..

people in america are allowed with so much stuff since young age..

they go on dates in their starting of teens .. and do suff watever they want wen they 18..

wont listen to parents after they turn 18 ...

well we never even go to dates ...

we mostly have arranged marriage... the decision will be ours .. but first the paretns

select and give us the options .... everyone is involved :) ..

we'll be controlled by our parents for pretty much 20 or so ...

well its like pretty much like opposite of it...

hmm well not sure how u can achieve that... there is a log gap tp fill dear ..

btw in india mostly a person marries just once ..

there are some cases of re-marriage but that is soo soo rare and less..

well i hoppe ur msg reaches to most of ur ppl and

start to consider ur suggestion ..lolz

hope this helps

have fun

I have thought about arranged marriages quite a bit in the last days.

I think parents are better at choosing mates for their kids than their kids are for themselves.

I was in one thread online where the question was something like "what do you look for in husband" and one girl responded something like "6 pack abs and a big penis"

or something like that. I cant remember verbatim.

Thats when i realized.. american women arent really marrying for love anyways. They are marrying for sex. Hot sex.

That must be in part why the divorce rate is so high.

I think parents would choose wealthier males for their daughters than what their daugthers would choose for themselves. Parents would arrange their daughters to wed accomplished males or into accomplished families.

They wouldnt say "hmmm lets get her a boy with a big dong. Mrs. Crow. Does your son have a big dong? peek. Only the biggest penis is good enough for our pooky"

Parents can choose mates better than kids can.

And parents would stop calling people gold diggers and arrange their daughters to wed into the richest family they can get for her.

And no parent with a brain would arrange their daughter to wed a felon or a gansta or a thug or a criminal or a flunkout.

WE'd finally get those clowns out of the breeding pool.

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It can't be done. Young American women don't respect their parents.

They would prefer to marry the man they fall in love with, not someone who their parents have decided would be a good husband.

in indian tradition if the man is GOOD they will look after him through out his life,

why don't you select an indian lady and marry her, who is interested to become a american citizen and there are many in india BUT YOU SHOULD BE GOOD AND KIND ALWAYS

Do you mean Indian as in India, or Indian as in the Sioux, etc? I don't know about Red Bear and Crazy Horse and all those greats that we, in England, love, but arranged marriages from Asian countries is illegal and the UK deports them: we call it legalised rape.

ever see a happy indian woman? they're always miserable

America doesnt need anything from india

U must b desperate .. y would u even say that? Have u never loved b4?

LOL!

Good luck with that!