Who do i choose? follow head or heart ?

I would say neither, you don't love your husband and it seems pointless staying with him for money, that's no better than being a gold digger. Your ex is a ex for a reason and he still lives with his parents and hasn't got a job, plus he has no shame in looking in on a married women. He obviously isn't trying if he still lives at home and in the same position that you guys were before you met your husband, it shows that situation may never change. And if he's willing to consider a woman whose in a marriage then he would possibly be a cheater and will leave you high and dry later on down the line.

My advice is do the sensible thing and stay with your husband. The other guy sounds hopeless, these days you need to use your brain to survive anywhere. Plus ask yourself why you and your ex broke up in the first place. How long will he be able make you happy once you get back with him again?

I'm 17 and have no experience of this, however, you cannot live a lie. If you don't like him, leave, get out of it. Life is so so short, you cannot spend your life unhappy. You need to enjoy every moment of it, and if you're not then you need to resolve the situation. You should talk to this ex of yours, talk to him about your situation, see what he thinks. You don't have to move in with him, you can move in with family or a friend or on your own.

If you don't want to do any of this, maybe spend a few days away from your husband and your ex. Think things through, and listen to your heart. Your heart is what makes you happy. Your head is there to think of practicality.

Also talk to your husband. If he loves you, he should be understanding.

I hope this helps.

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I would be thinking, do the sensible thing, stay with your husband. But I seriously wanna say "FOLLOW YOU"RE HEART!!", do what makes you happy, who makes you happy.