My boyfriend has had too many sexual partners?

OK... I erased what I wrote because I read the 2nd half of your post... So... Who abused you as a young child?? Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Addict or Mentally Ill parent, abandoning parent, abject chaos?

SOMETHING happened to screw you up... Healthy people from well adjusted and healthy families of origin don't end up thinking along these lines...

I won't even try to "Doctor Drew" your Transgendered Partner (But I'll bet you a million dollars that his background is a clusterfu*k too) and there is NOTHING WRONG with your attraction to him... But this whole switch from "I place all my life's value on sex" to thinking about going out and screwing around at random until your numbers match is an indication of MAJOR ISSUES.

You need THERAPY... get some THERAPY and you'll find that life gets a lot easier to cope with and you'll be able to gain some insight into your motivations.

Don't break up with him if you like him. I think that you should just wait until a special time and if you feel it's right, then have sex with him. You don't need to yet and don't let him pressure you into it or anything. I think you should just wait until the time feels right, even if you are with him. You obviously aren't ready if this is how you feel. Just wait and if he's the right person, you'll know it. Good luck and don't stress :)

So now you wanna be stupid and have unprotected sex to ruin YOUR life? Either don't talk about it and forget it and live your happy lives, or break up.

yall neeed to tlk about him being transgendered bcuz he didnt tell u and he shuld have so jus tlk even if he doesnt want to still say yall need to for the relatonship to work

yes... yes, you should...