Is it normal to think this way?

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Yesterday I went on a date and it was great!! We went out to dinner at Applebees and were there for a little over 3 hours just talking and having a good time. She asked me what I think about her and I told her very plainly that I think she is very attractive and she started blushing and she thought that I was attractive also. I really want to go on a second date because we were both into each other. Is it normal to feel like I messed up somehow even though nothing negative has been done since then?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Personally, it sounds like everything on your date went very nice. I think that you feel this way because you really like her. This is perfectly normal and I think at this point you need to reflect on the best parts of the date. Focus on what parts of that date she smiled during the most. And those are the parts of the date that you take to the second date. For instance, if she enjoyed sharing a dessert...do it again. Starting a dating ritual will keep a cute and flirty pattern going. I don'tt think you messed up. The fact that she even asked you what you think of her means she thinks a lot of you. If things were going bad on the date shewouldn'tt have asked what you thought about her. Just given that information alone I feel confident that your date went okay and I think you should feel the same way. The way you feel right now is normal though we all second judge ourselves. Keep charming her.

Drew322 · Answer

Yes, it is normal. It is your bodies flight or fight response. You're in a new situation that is making you nervous so your body naturally tries to bombard you with negative thoughts in order to avoid the situation.

If you left at the end of the night with a smile on your face than look forward to the next date which you'll probably be just as nervous about until you see face to face.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't listen to Andrew..hes a chubby little boy who has never even been on a date. It sounds like you two really are into eachother so far! Take her out again for sure! I think youre just nervous :) it is normal

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that you took her to Applebees for a date means you should probably just give up.

Oatmeal · Answer

This question is very confusing...it sounds to me like you think that the date went great, so thinking that it didn't is kind of weird. Shes totally into you, so quit thinking that you messed up! :)

Anonymous · Answer

of course,you feel that way because your so into her and attracted to her  as well.you feel you could have done more to impress her because you were nervous on your date at times.but don't worry you'll get comfortable soon and then bored with her in time...

David · Answer

Oh god you screwed up EVERYTHING(just kidding :) )

Dude! You did great! Don't worry!

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