Guys please help... I am really stuck!!!?

So I met this guy about 2 weeks ago and it didnt go so well, his texting and stuff was rubbish and I hate rudeness so told him where to go then we got talking again, then fell out again then got talking again. Anyway he just came out of something and he was badly hurt. But he has made me feel so rubbish, like I meant nothing to him.

Anyway I went out last night. He's a DJ and I saw him. I said hello to him and everything was cool but then for some reason he was mean with me after a while. So I got mad and said stuff it because I went in there waving a white flag and he basically tore it down.

We kinda had a few harsh words and I caught him watching me as I was leaving the pub however I was so angry at him. I got home and spilled a lot of stuff in texts to him. I dunno what to do now because I will be bumping into him tomorrow night again. I did apologise by text this morning and then deleted him, but figure I should apologise properly. There are different bars in this club so I can go to others. So figure if I apologise I can walk away and have been the bigger person.

I really like him. I can have anyone and he knows it, but I want him and its driving me crazy. :( so can someone tell me how to win him back? please?