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i slept with my dads mate 2 months ago, and now my mum and dad know, i need a good lie!?

2 months ago, everyone from work went out. i work with my dad and his mate, jon. Jon is 23, and im 17. everyone got drunk and i ended up sleeping with jon in my house in the living room, on the floor..

My mum and dad read my messages on facebook telling my bestfriend everything and then they told me they knew and my dad is so close to saying something to jon. My parents have cancelled our three places at the christmas party and my dad practically hates work now, cause he has to look at jon.

Should i tell my mum and dad i was lying to my bestfriend because she lied to me about something the same? or along them lines. And make myself sound pathetic and stupid and feel daft forever, or should i just leave it and let my dad feel uncomfortable at work?:/ im so confused!

PLEASE HELP ME! IM SO EMBARESSED:-(

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  • 10 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Ew, that's disgusting. Maybe you should go on the Jeremy Kyle show, you seem the type.

  • 10 years ago

    To be honest i would lie about it because it is so unfair for your dad! You can't expect your dad to give you a job and now make him hate it so much and hate jon it is NOT fair.

    You need to sort this mess out even if it is lying, I would never encourage lying but if i was in the situation i would lie to keep my dad happy, its not fair on him!!

    Ahahha comment above about Jeremy Kyle show!! It is a bit like that, you need to sort the mess out sooner rather than later!

  • 10 years ago

    i dont think lying will help matters. Maybe have a talk with jon and see if the two of you can have a talk with your dad about what happened say something like it was a stupid mistake and apologize.

  • 10 years ago

    Your old enough to make your own decisions in life, so what if you slept with your dads best Manet he has to get over it, people sleep with all sorts of people and get over it... my dad had an affair and when my mum found out they had huge arguments for the next month or so but they are still together. YOur dad in a way is been selfish if he is stopping you doing stuff Coz you slept with his friend. Unless your dad was actually dating this friend, then he shouldn't really be bot herd. Your making your own decisions in life. Dint lie to them Say why at you think, say your old enough to make your own decisions.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    On the floor ? in the living room ? you sent messages on facebook and they read ?

    Sorry , if you were going to do something like then at least hide it , now that they've figured it out , there's nothing you can do but deal with it , don't lie , there's no use , it will only make things even worse

  • 10 years ago

    Ok , so you slept with some guy on a drunken night out !!! This is not the end of the world .....Your dad needs to get a firm grip on reality and face the fact that you have grown up !! This is your parents problem.....not yours. If your dad feels uncomfotable at work then thats something only he can deal with... Speak with your parents....tell them that your not the little girl that they obviously still see you as..you are an adult and are out in the world doing what all adults do !

  • ,
    Lv 4
    10 years ago

    no. they should say something to him. what the hell is wrong with him. a 23 year old should know better then to sleep with a drunk 17 year old...

    just give it some time and let it pass over

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    nah just leave it as it is. **** (things) happen. I mean jon is only 23 so it's all good. If he was like 45 lol then that would be weird. but ur both young so it's expectable. hope this passes u good luck :P

  • 10 years ago

    Maybe you should say you made it up as a prank to fool your friend/s. Tell them that you wanted to get her back but it never happened and you're really sorry for making up a horrible story. Sorry thats all I got

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Get him to sleep with a woman at work, and you'll be even.

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