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Should i wait or move on?

Well I have being going out with this guy for a yr and a half well just a week ago he got arrest and in jail for breaking probation in va .now we live in.nc so he is in granville co jail in nc but in two weeks he being going to va but I don't know for how long he will.be in jail over there . I love him a lot and miss him every day .so my question is wait on move on

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  • 10 years ago
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    hmmmmm...this is tricky because youve invested so much time with this person. and it sucks to know the person you love is in JAIL! yikes :( well i think you should see how everything turns out BUT at the same time i know it sucks but its best you dont be with someone like that :( theres a whooole world out there instead of waiting on someone whos in jail. if its that hard for you try sending him letters on how you feel and maybe you two can sort things out.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Move on girl! Those type of guys won't get you far in life! I know it's easier said than done cause love is a strong feeling, but considering he ain't got his ish together think of how long you're gonna wait to have him back in jail in no time! Let me just tell you something my mother always tells me...When Hunger & the bills knock on your door the love Fly's out the window! :) Sometimes it's better to listen to you're head & not your heart. It can make you regret certain decisions. Love isn't always enough. Good luck!

  • 10 years ago

    You don't want to attach yourself to a guy going to jail. About 60% of people who go to jail end up going back, and besides that with a criminal record odds are he'll be hard to support a family with.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    It would probably be best for you to move on, he has already made the bad choice of breaking the law and probably won't make good choices regarding your relationship.

    Source(s): Logical Reasoning
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  • Murzy
    Lv 7
    10 years ago

    this is your opportunity to move on. with his prison record, he will never amount to anything. if he can get a job, it will be a minimum wage position. what quality of life do you think you will have with him? think with your head and not your heart

  • 10 years ago

    he sounds like bad news, sweetie. Move on.

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    move on, you dont want to be with a guy like that

  • 10 years ago

    i mean if you over time wanna start paying bonds repeatedly, go for it :P

  • 10 years ago

    If you love him, you can wait. Only if you feel its worth it though.

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