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Why Is My Mom Mad That I Want My Own Account?
When I was in high school I had an high school bank account that was linked to my mothers bank account because I was a minor. When I started college and turned 18 I got a college bank account so our accounts became unlinked. I am now in my second year of college and I made a big purchase on clothes with some money I got back from school, when I got home before my mom even saw my bags she started yelling at me saying, "I thought you were saving your money to shop for the holidays," after a long argument I found out my mom linked our accounts back together and has been watching my spending. What is even worse is that she told me that she linked them a few months ago but when I went to the bank to change it I found out that the accounts has been linked back together since the day after we unlinked them.
When my mom found out I unlinked the accounts she was pissed and now every time she speaks to me she has an attitude. My Brother told me I did the right thing and my Dad told me that I shouldn't have done it but I feel that I did the right thing. I'm 19 and although I live at home and my parents pay my tuition I have my own job and I buy 100 dollars worth of food each month.
I just want some more opinions, Does my mom have the right to be mad at me? Why or why not?
I just wanted to also add in why I am mad at this situation. First off the fact that my mom relinked our accounts to watch my spending means she doesn't trust me.
Second my dad knew about this and never told me which to me shows that he doesn't trust me either.
Third within in this time that my mom had our accounts relinked together I have bought my parents three anniversary gifts, christmas gifts and birthday gifts on my debit card, and they have know about every single gift.
Lastly I now feel like I can't trust my parents, the fact that my mom is capable of doing this makes me wonder what else they would do to keep tabs on me.
2 Answers
- Anonymous10 years agoFavorite Answer
It may be a control issue
- bad girlLv 710 years ago
I hope you have removed your money from that bank. They cannot do that once you have reached 18.
Your mother should not have done that and you could make big trouble for her and the bank, tell her so, that may bring about a change in her attitude.