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Is 14 appropriate for second base?

We've been going out for three months, anniversary three days ago. We feel the love for each other. we haven't had any major fights. any fights really shes the girl for me.But that doesn't matter. We were talking and she let me touch her, i didn't ask. She asked if i wanted to. So after a while of anxiety shaking, and building confidence i did. Three days later we ended up chilling on my couch. We talked for s while about it. I touched her breast, under her bra. She touched me over my jeans. Is this an appropriate age for this. We bot hfelt odd after it happened. We were thinking it was just because it was something new? BTW were both getting good grades, in PSEO classes and we've each skipped 2 grades.

Update:

ill be 15 in 3 months, she'll be 15 in 8.

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  • 9 years ago
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    Hi,

    This is part of your teenage development. It is very natural - the enjoyment and the uneasy feel that follows.

    You enjoyed it because of the sexual gratification and the ability to achieve an adult function - teenagers are moving towards adulthood.

    The uneasy feeling comes from the moral concept of teenage psychology. In your heart you know it is not right at your age, but you have indulged in it.

    Your write up mentions that you two have already gone down in your scholastic grades. Watch out!

    You have had your fun, but life is not all fun. Teenage is the preparatory phase towards happy adulthood and that involves a career.

    Read more on "Teenage Psycho-social Development", "Puberty" and more at

    http://www.childhealth-explanation.com/teenagers.h...

    Hope the information will help you through your teenage ruffles

    Take care

  • 6 years ago

    It all depends on time. If you and your girlfriend feel ready for second base, then go ahead. My boyfriend and I are also 14 and we've been dating for 2 years. We've been taking things slow, and we waited a couple years untill we were ready for second base. If you feel you two are ready, then go for it. But set limits, so you won't go too far.

    Source(s): I'm in a relationship
  • 9 years ago

    Yes you are too young! Sadly, kids your age do that stuff all the time but you really aren't ready for that. Both of your hormones are raging and you guys really need to learn to control yourself. 3 months is not a long time

  • 9 years ago

    Ya if you guys are both comfortable with it then go ahead just don't pressure each other

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  • 9 years ago

    depends on the people, but if it seems right then why not?

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I was having sex at 15.

    GLUCK

  • 9 years ago

    Yes i see why not.

  • 9 years ago

    i know how you feel my good boy, and its not a bad thing

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