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Boy Problem, what do i do..-_- ?

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS! So I have a neighbor that lives like 2 houses down. I started to talk to him recently, but its SO awkward between us. Like we barely talk or can keep a conversation going because we dont know what to say. Its kinda obvious we're into eachother, but its just so weird between us. He also talks about this other girl "Jessica" that was his ex girlfriend & tells me his problems with her and how he kinda likes her. What i dont get is wtf? why would you tell me that if YOU like ME? i honestly think its some attention thing to start a conversation, but its pretty upsetting and annoying. I wanna know him better, have something to talk about, so we can click. I know he kinda likes me, but idkk... dont really know what to do. The thing with me is i dont regularly have relationships because it takes me a while to like someone, and a Whilllee to get over them? even if Im not even with them, i get just so crushed. I get into depressive mode as if i've known this guy for so long. But when it comes to talking to him, im like really shy. Please even though some of you are going to post ignorant comments, they arent necessary, i dont care, and you shouldnt care enough to post them. Let the 14 year old girl be. ! Thanks for your time reading this.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Seems like heartbreak up ahead. You two could very well become great friends, I mean the kind of friends who should not become involved with one another. When I was 14 I had totally fallen for my best friend and for years we had been on and off, even talking about the relationships that we had in-between. Don't subject yourself to that. You can give it one shot, but after that drop it if it does not work out, other wise you will go through serious with-drawl.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Ok...let me tell you the rules:

    1. DON'T MESS WITH ANYONE ON YOUR STREET.

    2. DON'T MESS WITH ANYONE IN YOUR BUILDING(APARTMENT).

    These rules are because if you date someone who knows were you live, when you no longer date, or if u don't want to be bothered, they know were you live and who comes to your house.

    Its obvious you like him, and he likes you. If you really wanna strike up something with him, find out what he likes. Ask him, "What did you do before you started dating ____?" Get him to talk about something else. Music, concerts, movies, school. Anything but his ex. He will eventually start to talk about different things. He feels comfortable talking to you, just keep that going. Even if he doesn't become your man, he will be your friend. And what you learn can be used on the next guy your trying to get.

  • 9 years ago

    Honey, take it from me. you're leading to heart break, it's best just to stay friends. You're 14, so the best thing to do is concentrate on school & having fun. Boys were my constant subject & school, which caused me to screw up a lot, and become very emotional. I'd hate to see that happen to you you seem very sweet. Good luck hun.

    Source(s): 18, and out of school now.
  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    My dear friend,he likes you and he does not know what t talk to a girl,he talks about his ex.It has no meaning.You can tell him that he can talk about anything except his ex.You find out about his hobby,games he plays,movies he likes etc and talk about those subject.Shyness is jewellery for girls so it is good to be shy.

    Source(s): I am a counsellor.
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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Sometimes I feel that he only wants your friendship.. Or may be he really likes you and want a topic to talk about. Or he wants you to sympathize with him.. Either way its positive...Treat the situation with care. All the best.

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  • 9 years ago

    You both are obviously shy around one another. If he likes you, I don't understand why he would be talking about another girl around you. He either doesn't like you if he's talking about another girl, or he's trying to make you jealous.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    he wants to keep you in the friend zone.

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