Does my boyfriend not care?

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months now and for some reason when we are texting he will randomally stop texting me.. Also he will ignore me for the longest time and then he will tell me what he was doing, but can he really be busy all day everyday where he can't tell me hey i am doing this or i am busy doing this? I am his first actual girlfriend that is not over the internet... He doesn't ask me if I want to meet his family or nothing, he don't like talking on the phone or I would talk to him.. He only texts me or sometimes messages me on facebook.. Then I have to wait till the weekends to see him because he goes to college.. Does anyone think that he doesn't want to be with me? Or is there any way I can make our relationship stronger?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He's just not that into you....honestly, if you were the girlfriend he's always wanted he would be showering you in text messages and phone calls and asking to see you whenever you possibly can, and that's the truth....guys don't want to risk losing something special that they really care about, but they also settle for less

xK · Answer

You two have different priorities and views on relationships.  Right now, as a college student, he's probably really busy.  Could he take time to say he's busy?  Sure.  But he probably doesn't even think about it.

You, on the other hand, apparently have a lot more free time where you can psychoanalyze his behavior and assume it has something to do with you.  It doesn't.  You're dating a guy in college, not high school.  College is a lot harder with a lot more work.

Your relationship is fine.  Talk to him when you can, but don't make a big deal out of not talking every day.

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