My boyfriend broke up because we was moving to fast?

If it's the same boyfriend you talked about in your previous questions, you've been going out with him for a little over two months. You're 18 and he's in college. Last week you didn't know how to talk to him.

It sounds like you're not in school and he is. School makes us think. It expands our list of things to talk about. You noticed that you were short on topics in a previous post. He may have noticed that. He may want more in-depth conversations on a broader range of subjects.

A post-secondary education changes people rapidly. Leaving school lets us settle into being who we are. Sure, we change, but at a much slower rate.

I think he's noticing a disconnect because the two of you can't talk to each other. He's realizing that a long-term relationship is not viable in this situation. At the same time, he's spending time with young women who are more able to have in-depth conversations on a variety of topics, and he's more comfortable with them than he is with you.

The relationship is over. Sorry. He didn't deal with the real issue face-on because he doesn't know how to say it without hurting you.

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I don't think he is gay. I don't know how anyone would make that assumption from the story but I do think the money thing could ring true.

OR he is just over it. Sometimes we don't understand ourselves why someone we use to like doesn't interest us any more and of course everyone wants an explanation and it isn't always easy to give so we revert to things like "its not you its me", "I am to busy in life right now", "We moved to quick" etc...

You can't really blame people for this. You should play the game and except whatever reason they give because the BOTTOM line is they don't want to be with you.

If it is the money thing, he will come around again after christmas. In the mean time, don't contact him.

Lol.. Your bro Made Me chuckle xD.

But, heres what ithink. When a Relationship moves to Fast it could Get boring, and when To Slow.. It will Lag Harshly and When Mediuim, Perfect as Long as Not much Problems, Now. Maybe He was just Not intrested anymore and he was making excuses up to let you know that , If your smart enough you wouldve Known. Some guys can be totally Bipolar and *** holes at Times, i know cuz thats how my ex was -,-

If he was Ignoring You, then he probably was hiding something >_> ... I know Cuz of my Ex Also!

And If somebody Else wasnt Giving you Attention, Then Somethings wrong to :p

Like they say, When Your ignoring her,Somebody else is giving her attention.

Sometimes Jealousy Is Good c; Because it shows he/ She doesnt wanna Lose you, So Yeah! Theres what i think.. Hope it helped c;

.. I lived thru that 3 weeks ago ;o

I think he didn't want a relationship in the first place...

he got upset over trying to exchange numbers with your sister? yeah, commitment issues right there. Most "real men" would have been flattered to be so welcomed into the family ... kinda.

Its best that you find this out now than to have wasted anymore of your time.. hope you can use or at least return his christmas present...

I think he doesn't want to spoil you and took it the wrong way so got offended because ht thought u were asking your sister to tell him what to get you instead of him deciding for himself because he feels he can show his feelings through a present

This probably is not what you want to hear, but it sounds like an excuse. Men are pigs and will say anything but the truth.

I think he just wanted a casual EFF buddy and you wanted to like call him all the time and hang out

did a past relationship of his ever wreck him emotionally? thats the same thing that happend to me, i guess we moved to fast and she got scared and not only dumped me but dosent want to see me, just cause shes scared of getting hurt.

1 your boyfriend probly broke as a hobo,

#2 your boyfriend is a lil sensitive lil *****, and needs to grow a pair.

#3 "YOU" deserve way better,

#4 Best Answer<= rite herree