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How do I start a friends with benefits relationship?

I found to perfect guy to be my FWB but I don't know how to ask him.

Update:

WOW I'm getting a lot of hate for this...stop saying ew, please.

He's not the perfect guy for me, he's the perfect guy to have a FWB relationship with.

If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

I just want to know how to ask him, like in person, or over a text, or should I call him. I also want to know how to word it.

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  • AznGuy
    Lv 5
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think most guys wouldn't mind having some sex with no strings attached, especially if you're good looking. Just ask him how he feels about FWB in a hypothetical question. If he's ok with the idea, then ask him if that girl was you. In all likelyhood, you'd be in bed w/ him that day. If it doesn't work out w/ him, then you call me.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Well, this all depends on if you think you can handle that, because that is as far as it will go, meaning that your guy friend can have a girlfriend and come back to you any time that he wants, it works both ways, but friends with benefits can get you hurt bad and hurt your reputation.

  • Frank
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    If he is perfect then why not be his girlfriend? I mean it is essentially the same thing but you get to be exclusive with him. Being FWB means that you are giving him permission to have sex with other women when ever he feels like it. If that is OK with you then you don't need to say anything, just kiss him and say you want to go all the way with this guy, then just leave him, then call him up and again and repeat that process. It is not difficult for the guy.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Are you sure that's what you want? Remember - guys can just have sex with you and have it be JUST sex and nothing more. Girls usually want sex to mean something and get very upset and feel very used when that doesn't happen. Make sure you've got the stomach for it if you do this.

  • 9 years ago

    If he is perfect then dont start one with him .....its any way a bad idea to do this right from the start

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Ask him: do you want to plow me? As a friend of course

  • 9 years ago

    Be closer with him and flirt, he'll get the idea... But if he doesn't, just tell him "let's do it" haha.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Umm gross....why do things like that with a friend? you should do it with someone special....wow..

  • 9 years ago

    EWWW

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