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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Is this too early in relationship?

me and my boyfriend of 3 months are in long distance relationship. We have met only twice since our relation started through FB. He is friends friend and hence not totally stranger. He is very sweet and nice guy.

On our first date we kissed. and in second date which was night out, we hugged, kissed, but did not had sex (we slept besides each other though).

Do u think we are physically getting into each other too early?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Shikha..I guess it's too early. If you don't know each other better. If it's just time pass then it's fine.

    You both have to exchange your thoughts, feelings, like & dislikes. Get to know each other better so that the intimacy can be created then you go physical. The relationship will grow longer.

  • Baldev
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Dear friend, call me old fashioned but just chatting with a guy for some time on internet where you cannot even see him and then kissing him right the first time you meet is not the way to go if you want to remain a good girl and not to be characterized as the type of girls who jump into bed with any guy they feel is cute. I hope you know what everyone calls those type of girls. And the second time you met him you spent the night together where there was kissing and hugging and surely a little feeling here and there but no sex while you two slept in the same bed, sounds like he really is a very very very nice guy who with all your openness did not forced himself on you that time or say you were lucky that he did not forced it. He may have.

    And I don’t think I need to say anymore as you may have gotten the point and since its your life you have to decide how you want it to be

  • 9 years ago

    Doing sex or getting physical with a known guy or unknown guy does'nt make any differance physically but DOES MENTALY affect..so now its upto you how strong you are...according to me if you are expecting true long relationship and its your first love than it is a bit early..because you hardly know him,but if you trust me than fine girl..but dönt give the guy signs that you are too easily accessable...

    For further help i m there sweety...

    Best of luck

  • monish
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    This shows that you are really intimate with him.as long as you have control over yourself then itz not much to worry about things.. kissin and huggin is normal.. If had done sex then i can say it was really too early cos itz just 3 months..!

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  • lamoni
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    hormones. and asserting yu "love" yur boyfriend extra then yur relatives after 4 days. women frequently ruin theyre teenage life with it because of the fact theyre so fckin emotional. boys ... only hormones i assume. till theyre emotional too.

  • 9 years ago

    its totaly depend on you what do u feel about that guy, you should ask this to your mutual friend. if we kiss and sleep with someone its not problem, but we do all this with wrong person who is strager for us. i tell you one thing boys always do doubt if girl do all this thing suddenly.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If it seem ok to you then go for it , if it seem not right then do it , you can tell about your relationship with him the best .

  • 9 years ago

    If you're asking this, then it is...

    If you didn't think so this would be out of the question

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    So M.K.Gandhi is reborn.

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