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Forced to give bf facebook password & email ?

My bf & i all most broke up yesterday because he said his friends & their gf's share there passw/email with each other & i just don't want to & he got mad & thought that i'm hiding stuff which am not, he gave me his but i told him i don't want it it's private & for him alone & i trust him but he insist i give him mines :\ . Should i ? he told me that he trusts me but he just wanna see it, He shared his biggest secrets with me & for a small thing i really find it hard :\ , Advice ?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    if u thnk u hav nthn to hde u cn gve hem bt fb n email pasword are prvte and confidential he doeznt need to knw evryn abt u an mayb he wnt be the 1 to marry u xo thnk abt t lv...to gve hem or nt!

  • 9 years ago

    He obviously doesn't trust you to ask for the information regardless of what he says. I don't share my passwords with my girlfriend to any of my accounts, I also have nothing to hide. My girlfriend has seen my accounts when I show her stuff in them, but never once has she asked me to view it randomly.

    I would show him your facebook without giving him the password and tell him to get lost and dump the chump. You can try working it out if you think he is a good guy, but this is a red flag and you should be leary. Majority of couples do not share their passwords, cause you should still be able to have some privacy in your own life. Regardless of the fact that one would be an idiot not to make up a random account/email and use that if they were to cheat.

    I am not a cheater and will never be one, I trust my gal completely and she trusts me.

  • 9 years ago

    If he trusts you then he would not ask but because he has asked and you said no then there is not trust with you two he thinks your hiding something when you might not be but that will play on his mind because you said no. Dont give him your password just show him your fb page and let him see what ever he wants. Or if you really want it to last then both get rid of fb it causes too many problems i dont have a fb account and nore does my wife because it breaks ppl up.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I think that you should just do whatever makes you feel comfortable. He shouldn't have almost broken up with you because your relationship isn't like other people's. If you really don't want him to have the password, try explaining to him. If it gets to the point where he really is going to break up with you (and you want to stay with him), then I guess you'll just have to share it. Maybe he wants to use it to write nice things about you :L

    Hope you can work it out!(:

  • 9 years ago

    What the **** man, why do you people deal with **** like that? If your boyfriend gets bent out of shape, because he doesn't know the details of your face-book page, the ************ needs dumped. Based on your picture, you're pretty hot, and should not have a problem finding another boyfriend. You only live 70-80+ years on earth, do you want to waste it dealing with **** like that?

  • 9 years ago

    If he is one of your friends on fb and can see what you are posting, I see no reason why he would need your passwords. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't. He doesn't have the right and personally, sounds a bit controlling to me. I would really question his motives as to why he wants them.

  • 9 years ago

    He shouldn't make you do something you don't want to do. If you told him straight out that you don't want to give your info out and he still keeps bothering you about it then that's not cool. If you really don't want to share your password, don't.

  • 9 years ago

    ._.

    Don't do it!

    I mean, who cares if you're in a relationship! This is private, meaning only meant for you.

    Jeez, let him know that being in a relationship doesn't mean sharing EVERYTHING >.>

    Source(s): Experienced it
  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    if you honestly have nothing to hide, give him your login info. you're only making him worry more by not. he may trust you, but if you're being eh about it he could doubt trusting you. just do it and he'll see theres nothing to worry about. i mean, if you do have something to hide, just tell him. honesty is the best policy in a relationship.

  • 9 years ago

    i think at this point your bf is being possessive about you. what's there in life if you cannot enjoy your privacy. don't give him your details at any cost.

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