Should I help my boyfriend with his greencard?HELP!?

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I've been with my bf for 3years now,i was born in d states and he's from brazil.we go through some ups and downs.. We still get along especially now that am pregnant for him. But something came up and he need it soon. U think I should give it to him and get married at court

P.S I never wanted a marriage like that in court, and I keep thinking about it like when we break up or if he cheats on me I will regrett it. But am also doing it because I want my son to see him, at the same time am very insecure. Like am afraid to do it for him and he leaves like most people do when they get their green card. 
I don't know what to do... What do u guys suggest?

Bern99 · Accepted Answer

i can understand that you want your child to have access to the father.  this good deed if you help him out should be because, you love him      help him with no expectation of getting anything in return from him, just because you do a good deed for another person dose not mean you own them or they owe you something in return.  do it with a clear heart and all will turn out for you and you alone. 

good luck

? · Answer

No. Sorry...but my heart tells me that whether you marry him or not and after 3years of being together, and now your pregnant...he's gonna leave you anyway. You are already planning on him leaving or cheating on you. This is a sorry excuse for a marriage. But my my head tells me your gonna marry him anyway. sigh.....

Yes...but "marriage" for a green card should not be classified as a "Good Deed".

Anonymous · Answer

so you are having a baby with him and wondering if you should help him, were you born stupid or did it happen over time

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