Girl didn't text in three days, bad sign? Bit long, so ten points for best answer.?

Hey man,

I was dealing with a girl exactly like that. Same ole story too. In the end (after 4 months of wasting my time) I found out that the girl was seeing another guy (secretly). I even told her I liked her and her response was that "I need more time to trust you, etc." I was also the one usually sending text messages, and sometimes she would take 8 hours or so to reply.

To be honest, don't waste your time with a woman like that. She's already made her mind up. If she was interested in you, you would instantly feel it in the beginning. Her being "dull" is a signal that she's not really interested in you. Don't take it as you not being good enough, that's a different thing.

I say move on and find someone else. Keep your options open. Women are weird.. treat them like crap, act busy, and they come running after you. Treat them nicely and they'll just walk all over you.

Well , I think as far as what you are doing (texting , not texting) is smart. It seems like she's uninterested for a reason. For now just give her some space. Maybe next time at school try to find her to see if she's up to talking in person to see what's on her mind. Have any of you hang outs been one on one? I would base how the relationship on how she acts with just you. Well good luck with everything!! :)

She may be wondering if she blew it with you, and be waiting for you to text. This isn't necessarily the worst sign in the world...bad would be if you texted her and she didn't respond. Particularly since you usually text her after the date, she may be thinking that it's you that doesn't want contact. Only one way to find out...just text her already! Worst case scenario is she doesn't answer. Then you'll know.

Text her first, some girls don't like to text to see if the guy will text and its to make the guy wonder what shes doing, so deffinestly text her or better yet call her. You know its not "old school" to call someone, it's actually better than texting.

When it comes to your friends making fun of the two of you and saying to two should kiss tell them to stop, it's very uncomfortable when your friend and her friend are saying it because it makes her feel like she HAS to kiss you.

When shes around her friends or even when shes with you and isn't talking (being shy) be the one to keep talking, ask her stuff, make her laugh, find something to make her feel better. Tell her that your nervous too. That'll help her relax some, because sometimes when a girl is with a guy shes trying to figure out what she should say and wondering what your thinking. Maybe invite her to your house to watch a movie or two, hang out with her a few times just the two of you.

She might take her friend(s) with her because when you have a friend (or my case your sister) go somewhere with you its to help you feel more comfortable and less nervous.

Be honest with her, and don't hold back. Sometimes you have to come out of your confort zone for another to come out of theirs.

Best of luck.

to be honest she seems a bit weird, like she makes out like she does like you and then she just truns around and acts like there is a problem maybe she has decide she doesn't like you any more and wants to let you down gently :/ to be honest id just text her and ask her what the story is out straight so you know where you stand and can move on without wondering what if?! i reckon if she wants to be a game player then your better off without her. Good luck :)

I'm sorry, but it doesn't seem like she is interested anymore. It's probably for the best anyway if she was always dull around you.

Aw you poor thing. She doesn't seem interested. If a person is in to you, they're in to you. She'd be excited to see you and spend time with you. She'd rather hope you get the hint to stop texting her. I'm sorry :/

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Just text her, and be like... I really like you, but I felt I might have blown it... will you just let me know what you are thinking right now?

Or however you would say it.

I mean, I don't know her, so how can I say!?

well i think ten days is a long time you should just wait for her to txt u and if she doesnt well then you should probably find someone else

i thinnk she might be waiting for you to text her!

after a date i let the guy text me first. so i know he is interested...

i hope it helps :)