HOW TO FIGURE MYSELF OUT?!??!?

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Currently I am a senior in highschool and 19 years old. In my past I have been through A LOTTTTT.  I was born in India and moved to america when I was 5. I work hard in school and try to do the best in everything. Im a runner so i have that mentality to alway pursue for the best and win the most that I can. I like to keep everyone happpy. My mood and view of things some times depends on how others see me. Sometimes my happiness lies in how others see me. I want to have respect in society and help others. With that in mind, at age 17 I suffered a tramatic brain injury and worked hard to get back to my normal self that I am right now. Thats just a side notee. Now im going into college and I really want to be someone different. The kind of guy that people rarely find, in a good way. But I dont even know who I am now. I want to enter college with a general idea of who I am. Pleaseeeeeeeee help me. Tell me somethings I can do to figure myself out. Im willing to do anythingggg.

Rudolf · Accepted Answer

You don't have to do anything, to be the best person you can be, be yourself, you never have to impress someone, people will come to like you for who you are, as long as you're a nice person, don't worry or get stressed because that can lead to bad impressions, make sure to make the right kind of friends that wont abuse you for a joke or make you do stupid thing's you'll regret. You'll be fine

Boho-Wannabe · Answer

I asked a similar question one time, and got this true but very unsatisfying response:
People are constantly changing.  Yes, certain strong traits will always stick with you, but if you try to mold yourself into something specific and difficult to break from, you may feel trapped and one-dimensional.  Ex: When I was six, I thought it would be the coolest thing in the world to dye my whole head silver or hot pink; now as a teen, I'm not so sure.  People change, but important traits(like some that you described) tend to stick with people.

In your case I think it's safe to say you are a determined, studious, somewhat self conscious, and cheerful person.  If you stay this determined and conscientious about your grades through college I bet you'll do amazingly and wind up with a wonderful career.  Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

i think you can discover things you like and you dont like 
for example ; food , music , fashion , sports ,places and other stuff
and knowing what you want , where u want to go its important too.

Whiteboymdew · Answer

Please message me. I might be able to help you out. I know how you are really feeling.

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HOW TO FIGURE MYSELF OUT?!??!?

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